I am currently not on any birth control pills, but I had sex a few times unprotected in one day. Now my boyfriend of two years did not cum inside me, he pulled out before he reached his climax each time we did. As ive read up on my fax, I realize the pull out methods not the safest way to go about it, but chances are slimed. I got my period on the 25th of January with it lasting a tottal of 7 days. I have a 28 day cycle, now I had sex today febuary 5th. Does anyone think that I have a real high high chance of being pregnate? Please help :-)
iHeather
I would say that you have a VERY high chance of getting pregnant. The "pullout" method .... well..... not always effective. If you arent on birth control, and just came off of it, some women become pretty fertile. Maybe your not ready.
Hizgrace
I would say that you have a VERY high chance of getting pregnant. The "pullout" method .... well..... not always effective. If you arent on birth control, and just came off of it, some women become pretty fertile. Maybe your not ready.
Hizgrace
i think you have a very high chance of being pregnant bec. obviously your ovulating and you had sex with your boyfriend today so its very likely for you to be pregnant .. but i could be wrong... good luck with whatever you want :-)
oh and if you dont want get pregnant u should take those pills that stop pregnancy after you had sex of 24 hours.. you should ask about these if you dont be pregnant
well, I can normally tell when I'm ovulateing based on that clear stuff and how it changes to a much thicker coat. I do not want to get pregnate, it was just a spare of the moment type thing. Very foolish thinking about it now. But I'm gonna say I ovulate around day 14. And when I had intercourse it was day twelve counting from the first day of my last period. Jan25-feb5 is twelve days in. I am in no position to have a baby with college and such, if I had a baby I'd want to give it everything I could. Not feel like I can't thats the worst feeling.
Hi iHeather
I was reading your post this morning. What makes you think you cant give your baby everything? At this point in the juncture, your baby needs you, not material "stuff". So what if you are in college? Will it be hard being in college and having a baby? Yes, but it is NOT impossible. Young lady, you are going to come to ALL SORTS of struggles and "mountains" in your life. Dont you understand that these trials only strengthen us? These trials WILL NOT kill you, they will strengthen you, build character in you, and help you to reach higher goals with confidence. Wether the trial is an unintended pregnancy or something else.
Stop making excuses why you CANNOT give this baby life...and dont let your "feelings" run your life, you will regret allowing them to do so. Sweetheart, let me tell you... the worst feeling is going to be the grief that comes over you, not the worries now about wether or not you could give your baby "everything".
If your "signifigant other" decides to "high tail it"..... so be it. He will miss the blessing. Let me tell you..... the absolute refreshing and strength you feel when a baby smiles at you for the very first time....THAT LITTLE SMILE JUST AMPS UP YOUR STRENGTH.
If you are pregnant and have been given a blessing by Him, tough it up and realize that it is not the end of the world, just a wonderful new beginning.
Blessings,
Hizgrace
I was reading your post this morning. What makes you think you cant give your baby everything? At this point in the juncture, your baby needs you, not material "stuff". So what if you are in college? Will it be hard being in college and having a baby? Yes, but it is NOT impossible. Young lady, you are going to come to ALL SORTS of struggles and "mountains" in your life. Dont you understand that these trials only strengthen us? These trials WILL NOT kill you, they will strengthen you, build character in you, and help you to reach higher goals with confidence. Wether the trial is an unintended pregnancy or something else.
Stop making excuses why you CANNOT give this baby life...and dont let your "feelings" run your life, you will regret allowing them to do so. Sweetheart, let me tell you... the worst feeling is going to be the grief that comes over you, not the worries now about wether or not you could give your baby "everything".
If your "signifigant other" decides to "high tail it"..... so be it. He will miss the blessing. Let me tell you..... the absolute refreshing and strength you feel when a baby smiles at you for the very first time....THAT LITTLE SMILE JUST AMPS UP YOUR STRENGTH.
If you are pregnant and have been given a blessing by Him, tough it up and realize that it is not the end of the world, just a wonderful new beginning.
Blessings,
Hizgrace
thank you so much for that, you are absolutely correct. I would absolutely love to be a mother "someday" just not now. It truely is a blessing. And I will live up to my responsablity being as it was my mistake. But truthfully, I am in no position finaceily. I still live at home and do nothing but focous on my studys, family, boyfriend. I do not work currently, and I live at home:( I refuse to depend on my parents in anyway shape or form to take care of my child beyound what a grandparent should. Plus I'm shamed to be an embarrassment of the family by haveing a child. I just need to know what someone thinks honestly.. About me being pregnate. Can anyone help me ?
IF you are 100% sure that he did not ejaculate inside you then you are PRETTY safe. you do have to be alittle concerned about pre-ejaculate but normally only if your friend ejaculated then did not clean off his penis and urinate afterwards before having sex with you.
I really hope that your right, you really made my nerves settle a little haha. Has this ever happened to anyone?
One more question, what if I was ovulateing.... Even tho he hadent came in me can I still deffinetly be pregnate. Because I had taken online ovulation calculators. And they all gave me different dates. I'm not sure how accurate they are. But I always thought I would be able to tell when an if I was ovulateing. I squared and touched my cevix. The discharge wasn't thick and it didn't stretch even a tiny bit... And like I said previously I can normaly tell that I am because of the increase that appears in my underware and how stretche it gets. So any ideas?
if there is no sperm cells present then there is no chance you can be pregnate it as simple as that :-) pre-cum can have live sperm cells in it givin the circumstances above.
u SHOULD be fine. take a pregnancy test to be sure. also ovulation occures at different times for each person. so normally what patterns you recconize with your body is what is accurate for your body. if you are noticein a change in cervical muccos at/arount a certian date then depending on what thay change is. is most likley the ovulation period for you.
does this make sense ?
u SHOULD be fine. take a pregnancy test to be sure. also ovulation occures at different times for each person. so normally what patterns you recconize with your body is what is accurate for your body. if you are noticein a change in cervical muccos at/arount a certian date then depending on what thay change is. is most likley the ovulation period for you.
does this make sense ?
Thankkkkkkk yoouuuuu very much!!
i think there is a chnce to be honest babe te best thing to do is wait untill your period is definatly late then take a test let me know how you get on hun xx
will do. Thank u for ur opinion means a lot<3
no problem also remember that stress will delay your period so if its a little late dont freak out. go ahead and take a test to be sure :-)