This is sound advice, undue pressure in that region causes ed. Professional bike riders get it from the seat jamming them. Tell him to lay off the processed food and lift weights. Zinc is good for erections. No more porn and no fap in general. Good luck. Also mentally keep him encouraged. Half the battle is in the mind. Novelty in the bedroom wouldn't hurt the situation either. Cheers, from someone who got through it
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Sounds to me like your boyfriend still is addicted to porn. I don't have a crystal ball so obviously can't guarantee you this 100%, but I can say that I feel at least 95% confident that your boyfriend is still masturbating a lot, and because of that he's de-sensitized. It's not just the masturbation that causes the problem, but the "death grip" that men use as they masturbate more and more. The more you yank on the thing, the less sensitive it is to feeling good in response, so you use a tighter grip without necessarily even realizing it, and ultimately this makes it very hard to maintain an erection with regular sex because the equipment isn't getting nearly as much stimulation as it does during your frequent masturbation sessions.
I suspect some people who are ignorant or just clueless may jump to the conclusion that he must be gay because he enjoys anal stimulation and isn't performing well with what I presume is a woman partner (you never said). But the fact he's got no problem getting an erection to get started makes it clear that it's probably not lack of attraction or some other matter of psychology.
(Although psychology could still be a component--once a guy starts to have problems maintaining an erection, it's EXTREMELY common to get anxiety over it, and then the anxiety itself becomes the problem. Often times the anxiety is the ONLY problem.)
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I think this is what happened to me. I am not really an experienced bottom and I told the top about it. So he started stimulating my prostate, which I never experienced so far, and it felt incredible. The anal sex was really intense where the top (who was hung, but not anything crazy) was really going for the prostate and I had to stop him couple of times not because it was painful, but it felt overwhelming. I can not describe it better than that. It felt like he has to stop cause I couldn’t interpret the sensation. I came once while riding him. Then we had a second round which also felt good, but when I was just about to cum while he was hitting the prostate, I just couldn’t reach over the climax. It stopped. Couple of times it was like that. So close to cumming, but couldn’t do it.
Without exception I have a morning wood and I am super turned on when I wake up. During the next few days I did not experience that. Another thing, I am pretty turned on all the time and sometimes would jerk off couple of times in one day. After that sex, I don’t get the same drive. It’s like my libido is off all of a sudden. But it’s not psychological. When I see something that turns me on it doesn’t cause that tingling feeling in my penis and doesn’t make it erect anymore. I can get it up manually, but it’s not hard 100% and when I stop it starts going down immediately. That was impossible for me before this. I could get hard on command and just by thinking about something. I thought it was just overstimulated and it would pass in couple of days, but it’s almost two weeks and I am not sure what to do. Should I refrain from masturbating or should I try to get it up more frequently so it gets used to that as before? What do you mean by massaging ejaculatory gland? I am starting to get a little bit worried if that’s a permanent damage, which I still really hope is not possible. Would love to hear if anyone else had a similar experience because this is the only one I read online.
Thank you
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