Annoying girlfriend's parents

I can’t believe this question. I haven’t heard such tough question for quite some time now. I don’t know, maybe you’re the one that doesn’t tolerate anything who knows; maybe you are a tough person to deal with. Anyway if it’s not so a little joke won’t harm you. I’ll tell you how I got resolved the same problem I had. The only difference here is that I had annoying boyfriend’s parents especially the mom. That boyfriend is now my husband and their parents are still so annoying but I won’t let myself get depressed for that. I talk to them in every situation even when I dislike that and by the time they’ve learned to accept me the way I am-and by the way I’m totally normal person, but you know how some people are. Anyway you’d be surprised that also people like that might help you sometimes, you might learned something from them also just find the way how to get them. All this is worth if you love your girlfriend truly and if not turn around and find another one- don’t waste your time.

I left a girl once because her parents completely controlled her and i'm glad I did. I can't stand it, and when her parents put an end to our relationship (she was 18 years old) but she came back to me with the "we can still date, just not tell anyone" i had to pull the "lets just be friends" line until i could get enough distance from her that i could lose contact.

I think my situation was a little different, and you need to find the right actions to take for yours. Sounds to me like the parents just want to get to know you and that's a really good sign. Take the time to get to know them also, parents don't always have to be someone you hate.

it's normal for parents to want to know something like that. you are dating their daughter and they want to know that they can feel safe with you by her side. that you are doing good for her and not bad. Yeah it's annoying but that's parent hood. It doesn't sound to me like you love the girl too much cause then you wouldn't be depressed by her nosy parents. you would understand that they are just looking out for their little girl. one day when you become a father to a baby girl you will understand better.

I am in the same situation. I'm not depressed, but I think I might leave her. I have been with her for 3 years and every time I see her parents I have to play 21 questions and at least 15 are the same questions as the day before. I think they must be getting senile. I have told them where I am going to college at least 3 times this week, but they keep asking me.

It makes me sick to my stomach when I know I have to see them. I just don't think I can do it anymore.

Unfortunately a relative of mine experienced an instance where he and the girl were planning on getting married and he went to ask the father's blessing and it didn't work out. The father had said previously to them both he would give his blessing but it had to be asked. He had grown to have a good relationship with her dad from my understanding,but when he went to ask his blessing he was told to come back in 5 years when you have a good relationship and find out how to put her as a priority in his life. It pretty much broke his heart and he went into a bit of depression becuase he knew his girlfriend wouldn't marry him if her parents thought that way, she's extermely loyal to her family I heard. And that's exactly what happened. Apparently her parents were afraid of seeing her grow up or something, they went on to try to manipulate their own daughter into believeing the guy would be physically abusive or he was possessed by satan (*L* no joke!) I told him he should run away from the situation because he is a mess now, that family is crazy! He doesn't have to prove anything to them. Stand up to family and your girlfriend! The girl was still trying to be loyal to her parents even though they are unreasonable to the nth degree. He's a real catch and won't have any problem finding another good woman. He was just was not too smart unfortunately in seeing the warning signs about her parents. I only met them a couple times and they seemed nice, but it seemed like they were kind of judgemental imo.

Well I’ve started cutting her parents name into my arm cuz they’re so annoying and I can’t do anything about it. I have no power here.