I used to masterbate up to 7 times a day when I was in high school. Nowadays I do it far less but when I do it I do it atleast 1~2 times a day. It became a habit. I can't get rid off it since there is a gigantic porno storage called 'INTERNET'. The result? I hardly get erections. Im 26 years old. When I use my hand it hardens like a rock but when I try to have sex with females, it does not get hard as it supposed to be. I do feel sexualy aroused though(Im not gay). If my penis doesn't get erection, I get this extreme embarassment to a woman because I tried so hard to turn their heart so they can come to my place and sleep with me... Also if there is a gap between changing position while having sex, my penis dies. It takes incredible effort to bring my penis back to the operation.
My question is, "is this all because of I masterbate too much?"
My penis definitly reacted faster and better when I couldnt masterbate for 2 weeks before.
I have a girlfriend who is attractive. You guys might think Im wierd but my penis really doesnt freakin get hardened... I need help... Do I have to quit masterbating? Is masterbating makes my sexual endurance to go drop? please help me
My question is, "is this all because of I masterbate too much?"
My penis definitly reacted faster and better when I couldnt masterbate for 2 weeks before.
I have a girlfriend who is attractive. You guys might think Im wierd but my penis really doesnt freakin get hardened... I need help... Do I have to quit masterbating? Is masterbating makes my sexual endurance to go drop? please help me
I used to masterbate very frequently, 1-3 times a day. when my girlfreind and began getting sexually active, i noticed i had a hard time getting it up also.
I went on a 7 day trip with a school group. No masterbation. The week was MUCH needed R&R for my penis. When i got back, i got a "welcome home gift from my girlfriend."
I noticed my erection was increadibly strong and came up without effort.
Also, it felt more healthy the blood flowed right away with out me "flexing" it. And the finishing act would have bewildered Peter North.
So point is, i overcame the same problem by not masterbating and giving the spongy tissue and blood vessels time to heal.
If you know you will have sex on friday for example, make sure at least monday is your last day.
I went on a 7 day trip with a school group. No masterbation. The week was MUCH needed R&R for my penis. When i got back, i got a "welcome home gift from my girlfriend."
I noticed my erection was increadibly strong and came up without effort.
Also, it felt more healthy the blood flowed right away with out me "flexing" it. And the finishing act would have bewildered Peter North.
So point is, i overcame the same problem by not masterbating and giving the spongy tissue and blood vessels time to heal.
If you know you will have sex on friday for example, make sure at least monday is your last day.
Yes, this happens to me, and Friday or Saturday im going to my girlfriends house, all alone...welll i just jacked off about a hour ago and it's monday, so I can't jackoff the rest of the week, correct?
And I have a very hard problem..
Ive tried having sex before..but I Am not sure how to put it in, she is a virgin and She is tight, she said it will hurt and i told her I would go as slow as possible till it's all the way in..
Could barly putting the head in..take it out a little, move it a just a LITTLE past the head, go out some, go a LITTLE MORE past that and just do that over and over and over till it's all the way in? then go slow in and out fully about 5 or 6 times, then start to go at it more faster?
My friend told me that, and He says it works...I Just wanna know a backup plan just in case, and i need a brief description on how to Take her virginity since she is tight, were ready for sex. we already talked about it all, it's just the fact it's hard to put in, and i need a strategy to Get it in there, please answer asap?
And I have a very hard problem..
Ive tried having sex before..but I Am not sure how to put it in, she is a virgin and She is tight, she said it will hurt and i told her I would go as slow as possible till it's all the way in..
Could barly putting the head in..take it out a little, move it a just a LITTLE past the head, go out some, go a LITTLE MORE past that and just do that over and over and over till it's all the way in? then go slow in and out fully about 5 or 6 times, then start to go at it more faster?
My friend told me that, and He says it works...I Just wanna know a backup plan just in case, and i need a brief description on how to Take her virginity since she is tight, were ready for sex. we already talked about it all, it's just the fact it's hard to put in, and i need a strategy to Get it in there, please answer asap?
I've been going through some tough times lately with the intensity with my sex drive. I'm still have my own difficulties and finding the right partner of the opposite sex is a challange. When I focus too much energy on masturbating instead of focusing on my primary goal then my ejaculations are weak short. I have also noticed that my vision hss blurred slightly during a time of intensity as well as after, I believe that it is a result of the stress of the act of finding thr right picture, with the subconscious mindset that this sorce of release isnt the ultumate source that im looking for in real life. a lso there is the subconscious though of the difficulty in finding an ideal partner that I immagine I would be happy with. on a positive not I try to keep masterbating to a minimal, and the times that I need to release idealy come from a build up of positivr energy that constitutes a desirable environment/relationship forsight/future meditation. its thise releases where my ejaculations tend to be projected a supprising distance, nevertheless the orgasim is very strong and is heavenly. im just struggling with some lesser energies that I tend to be attracted towards because they are, hey quick! but they also take a little but of my focous away from my primary goal, the lesser energies also tend to make you seek something more with a (kink). this has the potential take you down some roads that will possibly hurt the way you immagine other preceive you as. im just spitting it as it is. also its important to mention that the avg age of puberty was 17-18 a century ago. not its 11-12. there are many environmental and food- sorce variables that are likly to be the cause, on the flip side Dr's say its from having higher health....im very skeptible, this awnser even sounds absurd when we focous on key physical mechanics of the body, basically its optimal stage of reproduction. balh
Me, i have been a 7 times a day for a long time! I had sex with women, usually with a condom so my penis went soft in no time. Without a condom it got too sensitive. My friend recommended a p***y pocket, one like a fleshlight and practice with it, since then i won't have problems. Few times and even still it gets way to sensitive but worked for me since i would change my grip while jerking off, where as the fleshlight has its all around pressure.
i strongly agree with you buddy,,,,it seems like playing basketball for 3hour without any rest make you tired and almost not to run or walk.....same as masterbation,,if you will not rest, you will lost focus and concentration and dehydration occur...we are not machines,,,we need time to rest,,,although machines needs also to lubricate....
I am having this issue to right now too and I want it to hurt her as little as possible but now even though we've agreed to have sex she is scared because she thinks it will be unbearably painful
i used to masterbate four or five times in a week. but my problem is when i am having sex i just got erection in 1 minutes what to do to be medically fit for good sex life
did you find out?
HAHA dude I spit my coffee out I was laughing so hard