I'm a young woman in college who has been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He has had countless other partners before me and has done different things with them. Most of the time he was drink and/or high. The types of girls he's been with are your preppy bar whores that hook up with any and everyone at parties or meet someone and screw them within a few hours or days. So the sex he's had, though it was alot, was very ordinary. I, on the other hand, have only had two other partners and do not "party". I was with my first partner for two years and we did any and everything, because we lost our virginities to eachother. The second was an experiment, and only happened once. When I got with this guy I expected him to have done more than me and be better at it, I was wrong. He had only done about 5 positions with all of the partners he's had plus oral and anal sex at times. He had never given oral though. I have a very high sex drive, and it's worse because i'm very attracted to him. He has a normal guys sex drive, which apparently and disappointingly is less than mine. I like to do alot of kinky stuff, at least try it once. He's not opposed to everything, but some things he'll get mad if i mention. Because my sex drive is so high, he worries that i'll cheat on him. I won't because. He has conflicting feelings about having kinky sex with me. He is a "preppy" guy, and alot of what like to do is considered abnormal to him and his friends, though many average people do some of those things. He is excited to do them, and I guide him through it when he's unsure of what to do, but he also thinks too much about it while we're doing it and according to his mindset he knows that he should think of it as weird and shouldnt be doing it because he doesnt want to be considered a "freak"(not the sexual kind) like I am.
How do I get him to open up to me mentally as well as physically during intercourse?
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