Me and my boyfriend are both 17 years old, we have been together for going on 21 months this August, lately since about March I have been wanting to have sex with him, he has wanted me longer, I have done alot of reasearch and been really thinking about being ready. I find now that I'm ready, if the moment hits. My questions are....is oral sex completely neccessary as foreplay to intercourse? Also I'm a little worried about size, I'm small about 5,2 and 110-115 pounds, he is about 4-5 inches taller than me and weighs closer to 140 pounds. He is sort of afraid of crushing me, will size be an issue in both weight and penis size? I also want to know about chances of getting pregnant. I'm not on the pill and probably won't be anytime soon, but he says if we do he will wear a condom, what are the chances?
Other facts-
We are Seniors in high school
I have masurbated since 11 or 12
I'm completely head over heels for him, this would be an act of love.
Answers and advice are completely welcome!
Other facts-
We are Seniors in high school
I have masurbated since 11 or 12
I'm completely head over heels for him, this would be an act of love.
Answers and advice are completely welcome!
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Oral sex - no, it's not necessary. Foreplay isn't really necessary, but it might be preferred. It's a great way to prepare your body for intercourse, it's a bit like teasing lol. And especially for girls, it can be more pleasurable. All depends on what you feel like at the time! (There are LOADS of different types of foreplay.)
Size - height only matters depending on what position you do, so no, it's not exactly a problem. Weight, well try him being on top of you and if you can't bare it, just get him to hold himself up by his arms or hands. Or do a different position. (Again, there are loads of positions!) As for penis size...I have done sooooo much research online, and found that some prefer smaller, some prefer bigger. If you've heard the saying "it's not the size, it's how you use it", it's true! Some positions allow the guy to go deeper (and therefore feel bigger). Just try different things and if anything feels good, keep doing it. If it doesn't feel good, simply try something else. There are infinite ways of doing things.
Pregnancy - If you're not on the pill, he MUST wear a condom, and not just when he is about to finish! He needs to wear it as soon as you plan to start having sex. Condoms are one of the safest ways of preventing pregnancy. The pill is another of them. Some people use both just to be safer lol. I think they're about 98 or 99% effective? Which is about the best you can get from anything.
Any other questions, let me know, and enjoy it!
Oral sex - no, it's not necessary. Foreplay isn't really necessary, but it might be preferred. It's a great way to prepare your body for intercourse, it's a bit like teasing lol. And especially for girls, it can be more pleasurable. All depends on what you feel like at the time! (There are LOADS of different types of foreplay.)
Size - height only matters depending on what position you do, so no, it's not exactly a problem. Weight, well try him being on top of you and if you can't bare it, just get him to hold himself up by his arms or hands. Or do a different position. (Again, there are loads of positions!) As for penis size...I have done sooooo much research online, and found that some prefer smaller, some prefer bigger. If you've heard the saying "it's not the size, it's how you use it", it's true! Some positions allow the guy to go deeper (and therefore feel bigger). Just try different things and if anything feels good, keep doing it. If it doesn't feel good, simply try something else. There are infinite ways of doing things.
Pregnancy - If you're not on the pill, he MUST wear a condom, and not just when he is about to finish! He needs to wear it as soon as you plan to start having sex. Condoms are one of the safest ways of preventing pregnancy. The pill is another of them. Some people use both just to be safer lol. I think they're about 98 or 99% effective? Which is about the best you can get from anything.
Any other questions, let me know, and enjoy it!
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Hey! Thanks for replying, that's all I really wanted to know. If I had others I answered them reading this forum. Thanks for the advice, I wondered about oral cause I don't think that might be my thing. Thanks again!
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You should have no problem at all with the different height/size issues. My boy friends about 6 inches taller then me and around 143 pounds, while I only weigh about 99-150. Hes never once squished me. (; He just needs to be careful, mindful and gentle with you and there should be no problem.
Oral is not needed, its just fun. (: I really did not think I would like it, I felt awkward about it. But I just tried it one day on my boyfriend, and he really liked it, which made me happy, and want to please him like that again. When he did it on me, it was awkward at first, but now I really enjoy it!
Warning, your first time can be really painful, don't let it put you off from trying again! Sad to say it took me a really long time to get used to sex and not have any pain afterward. Everything is great now!
Oral is not needed, its just fun. (: I really did not think I would like it, I felt awkward about it. But I just tried it one day on my boyfriend, and he really liked it, which made me happy, and want to please him like that again. When he did it on me, it was awkward at first, but now I really enjoy it!
Warning, your first time can be really painful, don't let it put you off from trying again! Sad to say it took me a really long time to get used to sex and not have any pain afterward. Everything is great now!
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