boyfrieng long distance,is it ok to masterbate?

Diddling yourself is perfectly normal, most woman do it - some as much as 3 or 4 times per day.

The best thing to do is you get yourself a nice, large dildo and name it after your boyfriend. I have found the double penetration style is the best as it gives me the sensation of my anus being fingered while being penetrated vaginally (my boyfriend loves to do that). Not that my boyfriend is away, but a gal's gotta keep herself entertained. ;-)