can protected sex delay my period??

Ksho11194 over a year ago

Hi, im 17 and my girlfriend is 17 as well, and we've been having sex about 3 times in the month of May. The first time we did outside pleasure( and i ejaculated) and then went to the bathroom several times and waited about 4-5 hours after a day at the pool and then we grinded more than night but i didn't insert anything untill i had a condom and i didn't finish at all. The Second time (week and couple days later) we played around a little and then i inserted without protection for only seconds, and kept cleaning myself every time i fell out or pulled out, i was outside of her quiet some time before i climaxed, I'm guessing a couple minutes. The last time was 3 days ago when i inserted myself into her for only seconds with protection and pulled out at the climax. My girlfriend said she felt cramps that night and then sore boobs and cramps the night before her period, now she is 2 days late, and emotional (not from worry just normal period emotional) and has tender breast as in her period is soon. I can't help but stress or think of the worse but we've had a closer call than that and longer delay time, but i am just wondering if nervousness upon having sex the day before her period is do will delay it at all? Even though its only been 2 days I still worry please reply :)

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ksho11194 over a year ago

Another thing is that my girlfriend and i keep track of her ovulation time, and we are very firm about not doing anything during that time, the second time when we had sex it was already past due for her to be fertile which is the only reason i did that, and I've done much research about all this stuff and could tell she wasn't fertile at all by the excited discharge she produced. Just an F.Y.I for everyone, if a girl has a discharge of a thick, white almost sperm like from her that means she is fertile and PLEASE stay away, if the discharge is clear almost fluid like substance then she is not around her fertile or ovulation date, meaning there is no eggs in her to become fertile

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Stressed_178119178119 over a year ago

Hi, is there anyone there to help me? i have been on yasminelle for the last few months now but when i have sex with my boyfriend we still use a condom just to be extra safe.. i take my pill pretty religiously everyday and if i do forget to take it at the exact same time evryday. i only take it maybe an hour or 2 later than normal.. that happens very rarely though, i always remember. the other day, we had sex without a condom.. i made him pull out before ejaculating and he is nearly positive that nothing happened.. not even a little bit. could anyone help me? do you think theres possibilty of pregnancy? i really hope not.. please help! :(:(

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wesssss over a year ago

this has happened to me just not me and my gf had sex last week can she was ent to on 3 days ago and we used a comdom and it dnt split does this mean her period could be delpayed as well ?????

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guest333 over a year ago

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Ok girls, first of all, having sex does not delay ur period, it can make it come but it won't delay it. But as mentioned above stress can delay it. As far as being pregnant goes, just because u used a condom doesn't mean ur automatically not pregnant. Plenty of women I know have gotten pregnant while using a condom. Remember, No type of birth control is EVER 100% no matter how well u use it. Secondly, messing around can also get u pregnant, it's rare but it happens. Sperm know where they need to go and many times will get there even when u think they wont. It sounds like most of u are young and have irregular periods but I would strongly recomend taking a home pregnancy test. U really need to be careful. Being sexually active at 15 is really not good for ur body physically especially if u get pregnant. A girls body is not meant to have babies that young so if u do get pregnant u could have a lot of problems and complications. Not only that but having a kid at that age will pretty much ruin ur life. So think about it, is it really worth it to start having sex already? Maybe u should think about waiting a few years and save urself some stress and problems. Hope everything works out for u guys!

OK, you are obviously not a teenager. Teenager girls periods will be delayed do to stress and hormones. Everytime my boyfriend and I have sex, my period is late. It always comes, so I just stopped worrying. Then you said a young girls body is not meant to have a baby. If you go back in history, you were considered a women once you got your period. And they got married and had babies as young as 12.

Guest wrote I couldn't agree with you more. If these girls want to be careless and stupid they will most likely get an std if they dont get pregnant. Some girls just have to learn the hard way, and they will, when their b/f leaves them ( as they always do) He wont stay with you honey. Life isnt like the movies . I suggest you take pride in yourself and wait for a Real man who has so much love and respect for you that will NEVER leave you. You are too young. Just have fun being a kid., not making one. Un-wed sex always leads to heartache. Dont you want your future husband to see you as a clean, precious, virtuous woman instead of the girl who got passed from one filthy boy to the next? Men respect women who have respect for themselves. i Know that i am so happy i turned down all those immature, turned on boys and waited for my future husband. He treats me like a queen and loves me unconditionally. It is the greatest feeling "Making LOVE" with the love of your life. Sex exists to pro create and bring spouses closer to eachother. It is a sacred gift. Keep it wrapped and protected for the man who will charish you all his days. It is never to late to start being abstinent. Good luck girls and i hope you really think about what i had to say.And might i also add, yes, girls were considered women as soon as they got their periods back in the day, but many of the girls died from childbirth because their bodies are not fully developed at that time. Make the man wait till you are ready and fully mature. Dont just be a sex slave that he uses when he needs to satisfy his needs or else he will always see you as an object.. Nothing more. Be the woman that God wants you to be. He wants women to be valued and respected for who we are, not just a sex toy or eye candy. Men would value and respect women more if women knew their true value and demanded respect.

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guest over a year ago

im seventeen and my period was about a week late. i then had sex for the first time after my period being late a week. my bf had a condom on and he checked afterward on the condom to make sure there was no cum on the outside of the condom at all. i was wondering if it would have an effect on my period already being late? also, besides stress, what are things that might delay your period?

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Guest over a year ago

i am 17 and my last period was july 6th... I had sex for my first time on august 3rd and we used protection and he didn't cum inside me!

Im not on the pill but i still havent got my period and its august 10th... im a little worried because I would be in so much trouble :S

DO YOU THINK IM PREGNANT?

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Worried over a year ago

First off I am a guy, and 4 days ago me and my girlfriend had protected sex, and she says her period is 1 day late. We are both worrying and I am scared. She said her boobs were sore the day after we had sex, but I think that was because I was on top of her, she just told me today that they are bigger. She hasnt had any cramps or anything. Do you think she is pregnant?? Please relpy, PLEASE!!

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scared over a year ago

i was suppose to get my period and i had sex a week ago around the time i was suppose to get my period and its been a week and i was suppose to already have it did having sex delay my period ? i had unprotected sex for maybe 10 minutes and then he used a condom im not sure he cummed he could have pre cummed when he pulled out he had a lil spot of white on the edge of the penis could it be my walls since i was suppose to get my period or is it him ? i havent had discharge when i do its clear or white no odor and i havent had cramps and when i do its for 1 min & goes away and i been rarely getting them my brest hurt not that much then again they could be growing can you please help me out and tell whats wrong could i be pregnant ? or just having a late period due to sex ?

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Suckstosuck69 over a year ago

Hi kiddies I'm in the exact same boat I'm 16 and was a vorogn until last thirsday when a friend of mine and I did it and we used a condokband were Borg almost positive it didn't break but now my period is 1 day late and freaking out

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hmhimanisingh over a year ago

even i m going through tthe same phase i had a protected sex bt i missed my periods by 15 days....m so worried i dont want to get pregnent . i am just 19..please help me

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Hisprincess01224912 over a year ago

No worries, i'm going through the same thing right now. me and my bf just had sex 2 weeks ago and i was suppose to get my period the 31 or yesterday and i haven't gotten it. I'm super worried :-(

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Hisprincess01224912 over a year ago

hi, i don't think your pregnant. You'll be fine just don't stress out because it'll make everything worse. relax and wait :)

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Guest over a year ago

A week ago me and a guy (noone i want to see again) fooled around and kinda had sex for about 2 mins ( he entered me and thrust a bit but it was nothing really). I was due my period the day after and i havent come on yet! Im worried because his precum could have made me pregnant???? I really dont want to go and get a test becaue im scared. How long should i wait to see if my period comes? And can i tell without a test if im pregnant?

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scared over a year ago

my bf and i had sex 2 days ago, but he was wearing a condom and he cummed after he pulled out. i saw it, so iknow its true. i was supposed to get my period 2 days prior to having sex but i didnt. and i still havent gotten it. i usually always get my period late but im still freaking out because i always get paranoid! what do u think? is it just my usual late period or pregnancy?

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