Well im a 22 year old male, was heavy on masterbation for a few years, sometimes up to 3-4 times a day...or so.

and recently i got in to a relationship and, sex was ok, however some odd things i have started to notice and become worried about is,

my partner just cant get me off.. no matter how hard she tries most of the time.. i can get myself of easy!.. but for her its very hard.. and takes a very long time.

also sometimes during intercourse, my penis doesnt get as hard as it should sometimes, mabey 75% of its hardness.. enough for intercourse.. however just a bit limp too... this goes and on and off.. during the act.. i never go compeletly limp.. but just how i described it.


so.. is this all due to from over masterbution from the priar years? or is it due to being a smoker, which i am..