I can never seem to reach an orgasm during intercourse or when my boyfriend is eating me out. The thing that bugs me the most is that I can't reach it when he eats me out because he is amazingly great at it and I love it. It always seems like he could get me there but it never happens! He does everything right too. I don't even know how an orgasm through that is supposed to feel? Could someone tell me and maybe tell me when I know I'm close to orgasming and how to finally get it there? I have orgasmed before because I masturbate frequently but the only time I ever really orgasm is when I masturbate myself. Its never really amazing either. I can only achieve orgasm by rubbing myself through my panties and its never really that great either. Could someone please help me!!!?
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I used to have this same problem. When most women masturbate, they pay close attention to the clitoris to O. It's the same with sex, you have to stimulate the clit. You can either play with yourself during sex or 'hump' his face lol This is what I do and it works! Plus, my guy actually likes to watch me rub myself while we have sex so don't feel awkward it's very common. Practice makes perfect! Good luck!
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Well, when I can't orgasm with my boyfriend it's usually because I masturbate too often so maybe try not jerking off for a week? Either that or like someone already said, stimulate the clit more.
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I agree with Meow Mittens, I think she is spot on. I would like to add that not only can you masturbate yourself, he can also masturbate you with his fingers while eating you out.. It is a little more difficult and requires a little more coordination, but it works well and allows you to concentrate on your pleasure. Of course, riding his face works good too!
He also needs your feed back about what feels good, when to stop changing things and stick with that groove that really has you going, etc. Teach him the masturbation techniques you really like so he knows how best to stimulate you. He will get better at it with practice, It takes time to learn to perform with skill nearly matching your own. Because he is not used to doing this hand may tire and may have some trouble keeping the right pace. This is a problem when you are almost there, all he has to do stick with the rhythm, then his hand tires and the rhythm falters causing you to lose it. He will need your patience.
As long as it feels great, practice, practice, practice! And when you get it it will be well worth the effort the two of you put into it. These orgasms are among the best you will ever have and will likely blow your mind! Whether you used his face to help get their or not like mittens suggested, most likely you will be holding his head down there and riding it for all your worth before you are done.
He also needs your feed back about what feels good, when to stop changing things and stick with that groove that really has you going, etc. Teach him the masturbation techniques you really like so he knows how best to stimulate you. He will get better at it with practice, It takes time to learn to perform with skill nearly matching your own. Because he is not used to doing this hand may tire and may have some trouble keeping the right pace. This is a problem when you are almost there, all he has to do stick with the rhythm, then his hand tires and the rhythm falters causing you to lose it. He will need your patience.
As long as it feels great, practice, practice, practice! And when you get it it will be well worth the effort the two of you put into it. These orgasms are among the best you will ever have and will likely blow your mind! Whether you used his face to help get their or not like mittens suggested, most likely you will be holding his head down there and riding it for all your worth before you are done.
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Sorry, I meant I agree with guest's response to Meow Mittens that included riding his face.
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My boyfriend always seems to want to eat me out. Try to see if hell start with slow long licks near your clit then speed it up a bit when you start getting hot and finger you while doing so. My boyfriend does this and it works all the time.
Also relax and don't really think about trying to orgasm just focus on the pleasure and how good it feels. ^___^ hope this helps.
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A huge piece of advice NEVER EVER let ur urge to pee stop u !! Embrace enjoy a release it's jizz not cumm !! Truly release give it to him
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I have the same exact situation however, I've never had an orgasm and I'm 28. I get very close to having an orgasm when my boyfriend goes down on me only because my body feels something it's never felt before. But I don't know what to do. It's like I am holding in the pleasure but then have to let go? I don't get it! Help!
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