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i think there is a reason to why hes not in the pic and hes has people watching me and when he sees me he will start to come my way so i ran from his so i dont have to talk to him bc i dont want to he thinks im going to come back to and he saw me with my new boyfriend and i know hes mad

Just be careful with him honey! You will have to mend the fences before the babies come as he IS their dad, and you will need his finiancial support! Just keep it cordial! How does your family feel about you not seeing him now?

they like the new anthony and they think hes better for me and will be a better dad

]they like the new anthony and they think hes better for me and will be a better dad they dont want the old anthony in the babies lifes and they dont want him around me and they dont want me to feel like i have to run from him with a 45 pound bookbag and a gym bag that weighs like 15 pounds

I'm glad! From the sounds of it, they might have had a worse reaction about your pregnancy due to the fact tha Old Anthony was the father and would be around! Sometimes life takes a turn and it may seem for the worst, but then looking back it isn't! Did you move back in yet?

Hi cat Im Liz I am 17 years old and I got preganant when I was 15 years old. I have read this post and went back allt he way to the beggining. My son will be 1 years old in 10 days and I really hate that my duaghter was here too. I was pregnant with twins when I found out I was pregnant. I had a miscarriage and lost my little girl bc of the same things you are going through with the family issues. I am the oldest out of 3 girls and my dad is a single dad and raised me and my 2 sisters on his own. When I told my dad I was pregnant he kicked me out. I went to live with my bf and his parents but Social Services got dragged into the middle of it bc I was so young. I had to come and live with my mom. By this time I hadn't visited or seen my mom in over a year so I was like oh jeeze why her. Well I got kicked out the night before my 16th bday and I lived with my mom from sept. till dec. so 4 months. In that 4 months my mom and I became the best of friends and now she has more to do with me than my own dad. My dad is so called religous but he used to call me a w**** and a s*** and prostitute. Everything you can think of that was what he called me. He used to beat the c**p out of me, so I'm kindof glad he kicked me out when he did. Well of course I had to quit school, move away, and live like an hour away from the father my son. We got to see each other sometimes. But it wasnt enough for either of us. Well finally my bf called my dad and asked him if he could have my hand in marriage. He called my dad bc my mom said no I was too young. Well my dad said yes that I could marry him. So we went to the court house and got married. My mom didnt show up bc she was upset and against it. Well I found out later on that my dad did it just to be spiteful to my mom. So that sucks right. My dad didnt want to do it to make me happy he just wanted to piss my mom off. And I am lucky to have the father of my child with me and to love me as much as he does. It's hard really hard and now I dont talk to my dad or my sisters which sucks bc my sisters are like my kids too. I have practically raised them as my own. But you sound like you have alot of growinfg up to do if your talking about kickin this guys ass or getting someone to do it for you. You had sex with him so he is the father of these bundles of joy you are carrying. Even though your family doesnt like him, you have to deal with him. He will have to help you support these babies. Let me tell you one is enough for me. I think there is a reason God took my little girl from me bc he knew that in my situation I caould take care of one but not two. :-D

Actually I will have to say that I know MANY mothers of twins and seperate children! They say it is easier than with just 1 because this is what it is!! I understand that to some degree, but most of these women had extra help already - because the people around them knew that twins were coming so people lined up to help! There is something about multiple births that brings the community out! There is an old saying - "It takes a village to raise a child" and DEFINITELY with 2 or more!

To Liz! NO God I know and believe in would have taken a child because he knew of your situation!! :'( Unfortunately honey, miscarriages happen no one knows why or how! So NEVER think that about yourself OK? I TRULY believe you would have been a WONDERFUL mother to BOTH!!!

my mom asked me to move back home and i told her i would but if something happened again then i would move out again and i wouldnt move back and im going to go to a school for pregnant people and teen parents and im going to let him see them and this week i have done alot of thinking and i have grown up alot and now that its done and i know i am i feel like it was meant to be this way just not with the pain i have

Good for you honey! Just give your parents some time and room though, there WILL be the odd time of "Well if you didn't get pregnant!!!!!etc. etc. " So just let them vent!

Are you talking about the physical pain or the emotional or both!?

both my back is already hurting it hurts to sleep on my back everything hurts

Check into a body pillow! It is a long pillow that you can put one leg over! This alleviates the pain in your hips and lower back! Also if you can get someone to massage your hips and back and shoulders this will help!

right not my boyfriend is with his mom in pitt bc shes in the hospital and on her death bed so me and my friends are going to make money for his family

That's a lot for a young person to deal with! Your school should do a fund raiser for him! At my highschool we did that for a young guy! It is going to be VERY hard for him honey! And he might not be "There" as in in the moment! So just be ready for that OK?

i know and im still there for him and they have told us that she has either a couple of day or weeks or months and other is dad not working me and my friends are going to get the money by playing one on one with people and then a football game with other ppl and tell them wat its goingto

Before you do something physical cat I want you to check with your doctor! At the beginning with twins it's not a good idea to exert yourself and increase your heartbeat - as this affects the babies! You can be the organizer and talk to the principle about helping Anthony's family! Most schools will be able to put something together - there is also Facebook!!!