we dont want him to know and i know he doesnt want anyone to really know and really facebook couldnt do anything
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No Not Facebook, it is about asking all the friends to do something! Of course if you don't want him to know that's another thing! It will be hard to do something IF he doesn't want anyone to know!
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Your call honey! And THAT is just a young man trying to be the leader of the family!!! :-( So IF a fundraiser can help him and his family then it should be done!
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its hard for me to do anything bc of everything that has happened in the pass couple of days and im hoping that she lives longer
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God Bless her!!! :'( My mom finally passed away from that! This is going to be VERY hard on him honey! He might be distant, irritable, moody etc. And you just don't know what to do about it or help! Just listen to him honey IF he wants to talk! A lot of young men don't and eventually the mourning WILL have to be dealt with! Because your relationship is brand new, he might not feel comfortable telling you what's going on! This is normal! IF he knows that you come on here, and IF he ever wants to talk to someone that has gone through it, he can always email me on here! It just helps to talk to someon that has gone through it and has come out on the other side, because when you are enduring such loss, it is OVERWHELMING and you can't understand why the world keeps on moving and working! So I'm not only here for you honey I am Anthony too OK? HUGS to both of you!
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like i do know were he is coming from bc i have lose someone from cancer its that hardest way to lose someone your close to and i still cry every day over my uncle the last week of his life i put off going to see him and the last year of his life i get really close to him he was like my dad and i go to he grave place and i sit there for hours a day and i cry and i still talk to him but its not the same
My cousin his granddaughter didnt even cry those 3 days like i cryed no one cryed like me
My cousin his granddaughter didnt even cry those 3 days like i cryed no one cryed like me
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Virtually EVERYONE of us deals with loss differently! A VERY dear friend of mine lost her husband when she was 36 years old! Within a week she went to the bars and was DESPERATE not to be alone! She NEVER did that before, she was like a lost soul swimming in the ocean! It is a CRAZY state! You have lost ALL control and you just need to have something to hold onto! It's AWFUL! I HATE HATE HATE cancer! It is the worst thing!
I am NOT saying you don't understand, I know you do! It's just sometimes people can't talk to people whom are close to them - thus people going to counsellors! So IF either of you need to talk about it or anything I'm here OK? Hugs honey!
I am NOT saying you don't understand, I know you do! It's just sometimes people can't talk to people whom are close to them - thus people going to counsellors! So IF either of you need to talk about it or anything I'm here OK? Hugs honey!
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IF he ever mentions this honey you NEED to phone Suicide prevention RIGHT away!!!! He is overwhelmed right now and doesn't know how to deal with all of this! When a loved one is dying of cancer, there are MANY counsellors out there - usually through your local Cancer Centre - that can talk to him! I used one at my local cancer centre and she was an ANGEL!! Like I said honey, tell him to TALK to me! IF he needs to! I am a daughter, a mother, and have SURVIVED loss! So If he needs me I'm here too OK? Lots of hugs and love to both of you AND the babies of course - also try not to get too stressed OK? It's NOT good for the little ones - I know that it is late for that but RELLY try OK?
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im more then stressed right now this morning should of never came bc if it wouldnt have then my cousin would still be here
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this morning my cousin was driving to home from work and some how she wracked and not shes gone and she was the one i told everything to and the one who was there for me when everyone else wasnt
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