hi.. im sara nd my age is 20 years.
iam doubtful about my virginity and im really scared.
i was physical with my x-boyfriend, i believe that it was not actually an intercourse becoz i didnot feel it going in, as in not too much inside.. nd one day i even saw blood, but it was too little i thought they were my periods, but guess they were not. i have been mastrubating for a long time now, since i was 13... i dont know how these feelings generated in me even before i got physical with my boyfriend...
now iam engaged with another guy and he knows that i hav been physical with my x-boyfriend, but he says that i have lost my virginity.. but m not ready to accept it as im not sure tht if i have or not...
i have been into sports, like basket ball, skating,throwball etc and this is the reason why i think iv lost my hymen but not my virginity,
Im c0nfused that if im a virgin or not?? %-)
At exactly what point does the virginity break?
And if iam a virgin then how should i proove it to my fiance?? i really dont want to loose him...
Iam eagerly waiting for the advices and suggestions..
Thankyou.
iam doubtful about my virginity and im really scared.
i was physical with my x-boyfriend, i believe that it was not actually an intercourse becoz i didnot feel it going in, as in not too much inside.. nd one day i even saw blood, but it was too little i thought they were my periods, but guess they were not. i have been mastrubating for a long time now, since i was 13... i dont know how these feelings generated in me even before i got physical with my boyfriend...
now iam engaged with another guy and he knows that i hav been physical with my x-boyfriend, but he says that i have lost my virginity.. but m not ready to accept it as im not sure tht if i have or not...
i have been into sports, like basket ball, skating,throwball etc and this is the reason why i think iv lost my hymen but not my virginity,
Im c0nfused that if im a virgin or not?? %-)
At exactly what point does the virginity break?
And if iam a virgin then how should i proove it to my fiance?? i really dont want to loose him...
Iam eagerly waiting for the advices and suggestions..
Thankyou.
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A woman loses her virginity when a penis is inserted into her vagina. If this has happened to you, you have lost your virginity. Whether or not the hymen is intact is not a good indication of virginity because a woman can break her hymen by doing exercises, like you mentioned. If he feels that you're not a virgin because your hymen is broken, he's misinformed.
I sense that you feel a lot of guilt over this. Your fiance knows that you were physical with another man and still wants to marry you. Please release yourself from the guilt and forgive yourself. If you did have sex with your ex-boyfriend, that doesn't mean you're a bad person. Be kind to yourself and forgive yourself. If you find it difficult to do so, I suggest you buy the book "You Can Heal Your Life," by Louise Hay. She gives some very good and very important guidelines in releasing negative emotions.
I sense that you feel a lot of guilt over this. Your fiance knows that you were physical with another man and still wants to marry you. Please release yourself from the guilt and forgive yourself. If you did have sex with your ex-boyfriend, that doesn't mean you're a bad person. Be kind to yourself and forgive yourself. If you find it difficult to do so, I suggest you buy the book "You Can Heal Your Life," by Louise Hay. She gives some very good and very important guidelines in releasing negative emotions.
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If you were penetrated, you lost it.
What bothers me, is that HE'S telling you, you lost it.
If that is important to him, I see trouble ahead for you.
Virginity was not high on my list of priorities when I was looking for a mate. In fact it wasn't even on the list. I didn't want to know what a girl did with her other boy friends before we met. I felt that was none of my business, as long as she was clean.
So I don't feel you should have to prove it to him, if he loves you, and you have nothing to feel guilty about.
Do you feel he's supposed to be a virgin?
More importantly, does he?
What bothers me, is that HE'S telling you, you lost it.
If that is important to him, I see trouble ahead for you.
Virginity was not high on my list of priorities when I was looking for a mate. In fact it wasn't even on the list. I didn't want to know what a girl did with her other boy friends before we met. I felt that was none of my business, as long as she was clean.
So I don't feel you should have to prove it to him, if he loves you, and you have nothing to feel guilty about.
Do you feel he's supposed to be a virgin?
More importantly, does he?
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I do not mind much if someone looses her virginity before marriage. But hiding truth from her husband is something cheating in the strongest term
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