Me & my boyfriend are virgins, (We are 17) but we still like to try things out. I'm not sure why but every time after he rubs me (not finger) I end up with soreness, swolleness, and trouble urinating. Is this normal? I feel like i'm surrounded by girls who do so much more and can handle it. Yet when it happens to me it feels good in the moment then hurts immediately after. Please help, should I see a doctor?