Hi, I am very trustful. Perhaps more then I should be. As a result, everybody takes advantage of me. The last time it was done by my boyfriend. The harder thing is that he has fooled me way too many times. I have promised myself that I will not be fooled again. What should my first step be?
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Hi, the troubles you are experiencing are known to a lot of people. They all feel betrayed. The first step you can do has already been done. You have decided to put a stop to it. As you said it yourself, you will not be fooled ever again. You must separate your true friends from the ones that are just pretending to be. The results will be shown promptly. Also, talk to your boyfriend about it. As a matter of fact, I would break up with him if I were you. He has fooled you too many times. Why do you put up with this? Do not let him trick you again.
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Im also a very trustful person, and Ive been done over aswell, Ive been socially deprived but from my experiences Im starting to grow a thick skin
As for your BF taking advantage of you, he doesnt love you. If he loved you he wouldnt do that, my boyfriend did the very same thing to me :-(
But I found it so hard to let him go becuase I live remotly and he was one of the only people I had in my life. It was hard not having someone to call everyday, to text when you wake up. It will be so hard but look to your friends and family for support, get busy doing something!! your work, a hobby, go to the gym, go out, just do something and you'll get over him
As for being taken advantage of, well Ive been taken advantage of by guys, I get sweet talked and take the bait hook line and sinker. There just all attention attention attention. and unfortunatly I let them have their way becuase they said "why not" well afterwards Im just not interesting anymore. So the mistake Ive made (recently too!) Im still hurting from but Ive told myself to not get done over again, I dont care how sweetly they talk, there not getting that, if someone loves you its not about the s*x, thats something that just comes with it sooner or later but yeah if its love it will be about you and being with you and all that, if they push you in bed then thats what they want, once they get it you dont hear from them again, your just not interesting anymore
its what Ive learnt from my sorry experience, Im now just going to try and focus on what I want to do with my life and living it and enjoying it and I hope I meet my nice guy one day
As for your BF taking advantage of you, he doesnt love you. If he loved you he wouldnt do that, my boyfriend did the very same thing to me :-(
But I found it so hard to let him go becuase I live remotly and he was one of the only people I had in my life. It was hard not having someone to call everyday, to text when you wake up. It will be so hard but look to your friends and family for support, get busy doing something!! your work, a hobby, go to the gym, go out, just do something and you'll get over him
As for being taken advantage of, well Ive been taken advantage of by guys, I get sweet talked and take the bait hook line and sinker. There just all attention attention attention. and unfortunatly I let them have their way becuase they said "why not" well afterwards Im just not interesting anymore. So the mistake Ive made (recently too!) Im still hurting from but Ive told myself to not get done over again, I dont care how sweetly they talk, there not getting that, if someone loves you its not about the s*x, thats something that just comes with it sooner or later but yeah if its love it will be about you and being with you and all that, if they push you in bed then thats what they want, once they get it you dont hear from them again, your just not interesting anymore
its what Ive learnt from my sorry experience, Im now just going to try and focus on what I want to do with my life and living it and enjoying it and I hope I meet my nice guy one day
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i know i'm a guy in all but i think i can help... you see i think your just unlucky i mean most of us are, i am extremely trusting, paranoid, and flawed, but i have only been taken advantaged of once and it was the worst expirience of my life.
I'm thrive on long relationships, (How am i male). i can't see the point in one night stands of advantage taking cheating or anythat... is it just me or are you just unlucky with men like i am with women. cause i'm pretty sure there is another guy like me out there. and i'm fairly sure thereis agirl who feeels the sme way as me out there.
I'm thrive on long relationships, (How am i male). i can't see the point in one night stands of advantage taking cheating or anythat... is it just me or are you just unlucky with men like i am with women. cause i'm pretty sure there is another guy like me out there. and i'm fairly sure thereis agirl who feeels the sme way as me out there.
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