im 18, i just started haveing sex last week, ive done it 3 times, i havent gotten off yet... its really upestting me. and its not like my Boy Friend isnt big enough... b.c he really is, hes about 6 inches long and really wide. i just dont get it, it feels sooo good but im not getting off! y?
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pls? i kinda want to have an orgasim and i need to know what to do before tonight....
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ive been having sex since i was 15, im now 19 and i have just STARTED to get remotely close to having an orgasm from sex. it is very difficult for younger girls who are new to sex to have an orgasm from just sex. women need either clitoral stimulation, or stimulation of her g spot. i would suggest getting your boyfriend to finger you before you engage in having sex and let him know when hes hitting your gspot (youll know). it will feel like you need to pee at first because your gspot is located right under your bladder (pee before you have sex). once your really stimulated let him enter you. also, try going to your local sex shop and get what is called a Candy Bullet. theyre relitively cheap, $15.00. this vibrator is meant for your clitoris, not for inside your vagina.
and dont make having an orgasm your main goal, the more you focus on it the more you will be distracted and you wont enjoy the sex. let yourself go and have fun!
and dont make having an orgasm your main goal, the more you focus on it the more you will be distracted and you wont enjoy the sex. let yourself go and have fun!
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ok thanks... and another thing weve done it 4 times now, it hurts... every time no matter how hard he is going, is this normal? like i know i was virgin before, but i used tampons and they dont hurt at all (yeah i know a dicn and a tamp r toatally different...) but is it normal for it to hurt 4 times in a row when u frist start haveing sex?
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hmm.. i would make sure that there is enough lubrication. if your too dry, this could cause ALOT of discomfort for you. it could tear the skin on the outside of your vagina as well as irritate the inside. after i lost my virginity i found it uncomfortable to have sex for a while. its something new to your body and things are being moved around that havent before. i would suggest taking it slow, and letting your boyfriend know when it hurts, and tell him to slow down and not penetrate too hard. if the pain doesnt go away then maybe go to a sex clinic and speak with a counselor there. thats what they are there for so theres no need to feel embarassed about it.
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we dont use lub... but its not like... umm.... its not like im dry down there b.c by the time we get goin im not...
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Then i would defintly go see your doctor, or go to a walk in sex clinic. its probably nothing, but it doesnt hurt to get looked at. my current boyfriend and i are very sexually active and it sometimes hurts like when i lost my virginity 4 years go. i wouldnt stress about it, but if it continues to hurt alot go get looked at just to rule out possible infections or anything of that sort.
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