How can I get my friend to masterbate with me?

Hi just one question are you both undressed when the touching is going on?

I want to be but my question is how do I get do I get to a strong enough relationship where we can start doing this?

The reason I asked if your undressed or not when tin touching is happening is because I was going to suggest that you start to masturbate yourself when she is touching your breasts then in from there and see what happens

I think she meant that's what she wants to do not what they are already doing.

When I was about your age, actually younger, I had a lot of buddies with whom I did it. I don't remember thinking much about how to get any particular one to join in. I think masturbation was just such a common subject that ding it together was sort of a natural progression.

I think if you bring up the subject of masturbation with her and start talking about it you will be able to get where you want if she's interested.

I remember a half dozen of us guys going to visit one of our friends who was in bed sick. Someone suggested we should jerk him off to make him feel better, and we did. We got in line and took turns stroking him until he came.

We didn't need any strong relationship. We weren't in love with one another. We liked masturbating and doing it together was lots more fun than doing it alone.

Try to invite her to ur house, play a game of dirty truth or dare and each time she says dare, dare her to take somthing off, she would probably feel like its her turn to dare u to do something just as nasty and shell dare u to take something off. Keep doing this until ur both fully naked. Once then dare her to rub her own kitty until u say stop, while its still her turn start rubbing ur too. Then she'll dare u to do something and then keep playing this game until u both are having sex. Oh and remember make sure no ones home.

I wanna masterbate with my friend just so I can see his penis and compare. I've also wondered since he is really tan if his penis is. I have some so maybe I start off by using that as a topic. Then ask him to compare and I can hold his penis. 

I want to see my friend's penis and masturbate too with my friend but he does not want to do any idea why?

I got into masturbating with my best friend in Junior High school by just threatening to do it one day in his bedroom. He said "No you won't!" and i said "yes i will" and he said, "You will not!" and i said "i'm gonna!". It very quickly escalated to my taking my penis out while kneeling on the opposite side of his bed from him where he couldn't really see it. I began to actually stroke myself there against the side of his bed. I said "Are you gonna do it too?" He said, "uh uh", but he was trying to watch me masturbating without really looking at me. I said, "You have to, 'cause i'm gonna cum right here!", and he said, "You are NOT!". But I was getting close. I pushed it -- "C'mon, ya gotta. C'mon! If I cum you have to, too. Right here. I'm about to cum!"

That pushed him over the edge, and he knelt on his side of the bed and pulled his penis out and began to masturbate with me. We looked right into each others' eyes as we stroked together, and finally, both of us came into the shag carpet under his bed at almost the same time! We each sat back on our haunches and let our penises melt back from their erections. When he leaned back i could clearly see his softening circumcised erection, still glistening from his ejaculation, and i made sure he could see my uncircumcised one. When our breathing had returned to normal, we had a great discussion of the different foreskins between us, and speculations as to which boys in school likely had which kind . Many such adventures followed this first mutual masturbation between two best friends.

Sounds like me! I had a best guy friend when we were 12-15 we masturbated together 2-3 times a week! We would give each other hand @ blow jobs! We would also 69 & cum each other’s mouths that felt awesome when we did!
Those were good times together!

That sounds like you had some fine adventures there, going beyond simple masturbation! These things can certainly bring a friend much closer to you, to the point that you begin to fall in love with them. And then life steps in, and so often we move on after sharing the most intimate of activities with them. Of course, sometimes the relationships continue for years afterwards. Lovely. I am always open to messaging if you'd like to talk more about such things.

I've been trying to get someone to masturbate with me for ever but I still don't know how

Be open to the opportunities to raise the subject and even act on it if the occasion seems right and safe to do so. Chances are your friend will "come along for the ride", so to speak. As they say -- nothing ventured, nothing gained!