my 17 year old bro never listens to me i like telling hiiim stories that he would enjoy, but he just is always like wait what did u say?? And when he doesnt hear me or anybody i would have like a freak attack, and whenever he sees me at school w my friends hes always like who the f are u hanging out w and im like um my friends and hes like wow their weird and he just laughs at them and im like ur a jackass i mean i just hang out w nice ppl and im so sick of him i honestly shouldnt care wtf my friends should look like i could care less so my question is how could i make him shutup about my friends cuz its really anoying how he even shares w his friends how weird my friends are cuz he doesnt even know them so he shouldnt judge and i am a very open person so i like havve to sharea my story w him cuz if i dont then my day feels off so advice ??
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First I don't know if you are brothers or brother and sister. Either way as siblings that is usually the way it is. Kind of a love / hate relationship. You can ask him to sit down with you at home, or play catch in the yard, or whatever floats his boat. Then tell him how you feel. You want to be good friends with him and hang out every now and then. You will each have your own interests and friends and that is ok too. Mainly you want to be cool with each other so you know he has your back in case something happens, like a bully or bad event.
From there you guys just need to talk to each other, but don't expect him to be your immediate BFF. Give it time and as you both grow up it can get better. Of course he could just be a jerk and never change too. But that would be his issue. You just do your part to keep the relationship available.
From there you guys just need to talk to each other, but don't expect him to be your immediate BFF. Give it time and as you both grow up it can get better. Of course he could just be a jerk and never change too. But that would be his issue. You just do your part to keep the relationship available.
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