Hi there for the past 3 years i have known this guy for that long and were both good friends, we hang out, train, have sleepovers, watch films pretty much what any other friends normally do. There is one problem with it though over the years he has met many girlfriends all which have gone pretty bad and i don't have a problem with this, the second year he ignored me and fell out with me because of his breakup and went though chronic depression, he wouldn't talk to me, text me and would tell me to f**k off every time i tried explaining to him that everything is ok and i told him im here for him. The 3rd year he started seeing a therapist and eventually got better and happier as the year progressed, even apoligized to me for being so rude to me. I understood him. Now we have been seeing each other for a long time now and usually i have college monday to wednesday and thursday i have off and this is 'our' day where we both meet up, go free running, go to his watch films and sleepover. We laugh, we care for each other and do each other favors. Only a few months or a year ago he met another girlfriend and his relationship with her is good. But every time i see him he is always depressed and won't tell me why, just the other day he said out of the blue ''Im really depressed, my relationship is pissing me off, i wish there was more to life" and started going on about his past relationships. i said ''it's ok man i understand im here for you anytime" i am a very caring person. But he is still depressed now every time i see him. When i mention anything about thursdays he says ''it's fine'' 2 words. If i mention sleeping over he says ''it should be fine, usually is" from my view he seems to be getting fed up with me. I don't pressurize him. It's out day and always has been but it's like now i go round there and he blanks me out, like im not there. If i say ''want to see a horror'' he says he 'doesn't mind'. it's always simple things he says to me now. I don't want our friendship to be lost forever but i want to try getting inside his head because something isn't right with him. It seems like whenever i see him this routine stays the same, we meet and then i depart friday morning. Our conversations don't last that long. I love him as a great friend, we sometimes talk about weird things. He is like a brother to me. How can i tell if he is using me? How can i polietely ask what's wrong with him without worrying about him yelling at me? His girlfriend is quite flexible, she lets me see him and lets him see me as much as possible. Can someone point me in the right direction? I don't think he is using me i think somethings wrong and he isn't telling me. I have never pressurized anyone or been unfair, disrespectful. When we train we do big things and jumps and we congratulate each other yet as soon as evening hits and i go to his house the happiness drops..