Hi Biscut,
It is very good that you have asked these questions, and as I can see you really care for your girlfriend. She must be very happy with you.
Many women experience pain during their first sexual experience. But some don't. If you want to ease you girlfriends pain you can use lubrication and take it slowly. Don't try to rush things. Let her relax and try to make her feel as comfortable as she can.
To mistrusted18,
I'm very pleased that we were able to make your worries go away. You need to relax with this. Don't worry too much and don't stress your self out. I hope that you will find someone that will love you and respect you.
It is very good that you have asked these questions, and as I can see you really care for your girlfriend. She must be very happy with you.
Many women experience pain during their first sexual experience. But some don't. If you want to ease you girlfriends pain you can use lubrication and take it slowly. Don't try to rush things. Let her relax and try to make her feel as comfortable as she can.
To mistrusted18,
I'm very pleased that we were able to make your worries go away. You need to relax with this. Don't worry too much and don't stress your self out. I hope that you will find someone that will love you and respect you.
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hey Biscut
thanks for the encouragment.
well thats very sweet of you to be concerned about the pain your gf will feel.i dont think my ex ever thought about it.
but to be the one experienced i would just like to say plz dont insert urself full inside her on your first go.the first time girls have sex,its really painfull.because the vagina is tight.let her get a bit loose first and then you may have different styles and difernt goes.but dont put 8 inside her on the first go.
and the other things dark_red told u very well.use lubricants.and provide her the most comfortable environment.
one more thing....please never force her.if she says at the very last moment she is scared and she dont wanna do it just dont even say a word to her.u might be high that time but plz dont ask her to do it against her will.after if God forbids something bad happens she is going to regret all her life.
i hope u have fun
take care
thanks for the encouragment.
well thats very sweet of you to be concerned about the pain your gf will feel.i dont think my ex ever thought about it.
but to be the one experienced i would just like to say plz dont insert urself full inside her on your first go.the first time girls have sex,its really painfull.because the vagina is tight.let her get a bit loose first and then you may have different styles and difernt goes.but dont put 8 inside her on the first go.
and the other things dark_red told u very well.use lubricants.and provide her the most comfortable environment.
one more thing....please never force her.if she says at the very last moment she is scared and she dont wanna do it just dont even say a word to her.u might be high that time but plz dont ask her to do it against her will.after if God forbids something bad happens she is going to regret all her life.
i hope u have fun
take care
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thank u and id never force her to something she was uncomfurtable i already told her that if she doesnt want to go through with it that i would understand and stop
im glad i had someone to talk to about it. I have one more question. Do u have any tips on how i can relax her so that she doesnt feel as much pain?
im glad i had someone to talk to about it. I have one more question. Do u have any tips on how i can relax her so that she doesnt feel as much pain?
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yaa i know it feels really cool that we can talk about anything over here and get many great responses.
to relax her...well dont act like a serious man infront of her.just joke around a lil bit.make her laugh.and tell her again and again that u luv her.nothing in this world can give so much satisfaction and relaxation to a girl when a man so close to him says he luves her.just be polite,be very very gentle.not like the normal days when u make out roughly.do everything very neatly.and belive me the first time sex is painfull i agree but its the most greatest feeling in the world.to feel someone u luv inside u.and ofcourse dont expect from her anything.at that moment she might not be able to satisfy u completly doing other stuff.so let her experience it first and ull see after when its gona be enjoyable,ur gona have the best time =)
i wish u best of luck.and do let us know how did it go! :-D
to relax her...well dont act like a serious man infront of her.just joke around a lil bit.make her laugh.and tell her again and again that u luv her.nothing in this world can give so much satisfaction and relaxation to a girl when a man so close to him says he luves her.just be polite,be very very gentle.not like the normal days when u make out roughly.do everything very neatly.and belive me the first time sex is painfull i agree but its the most greatest feeling in the world.to feel someone u luv inside u.and ofcourse dont expect from her anything.at that moment she might not be able to satisfy u completly doing other stuff.so let her experience it first and ull see after when its gona be enjoyable,ur gona have the best time =)
i wish u best of luck.and do let us know how did it go! :-D
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Hi biscut,
Well if you want to make hew comfortable the place where you have your first sex should be very important. If you have possibility try to arrange your room a little bit romantic. Find some nice music that will be nice. Like Mistrusted said try not to be to serious, and try to joke a little bit just to relax her. And the main thing take it slow, don't rush tings.
Well if you want to make hew comfortable the place where you have your first sex should be very important. If you have possibility try to arrange your room a little bit romantic. Find some nice music that will be nice. Like Mistrusted said try not to be to serious, and try to joke a little bit just to relax her. And the main thing take it slow, don't rush tings.
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thank u for ur help and i hope i can make my gf comfurtable now with our first time:)
Misturted 18
ill let u know how it goes :-)
Misturted 18
ill let u know how it goes :-)
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Well you don't need to describe in detailed just say was it ok or not. :-) Just kidding.
It is my pleasure that I was of some help to you. I hope that you will do fine and that there won't be no problems. If you still have any questions feel free to ask.
It is my pleasure that I was of some help to you. I hope that you will do fine and that there won't be no problems. If you still have any questions feel free to ask.
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Hi mistrusted,
How are you today. I know that you said in some of your earlier posts that you feel better. Does your condition still worries you? I hope that you are over that, and that you have putted that behind you.
How are you today. I know that you said in some of your earlier posts that you feel better. Does your condition still worries you? I hope that you are over that, and that you have putted that behind you.
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hey dark_red
i am fine thanks.hope ur doing good too.well i am just trying to cope up with the reality.now much better than i was before.as i have left the place and im living in an other country now.and with my family.my parents are a great support to me.i really have to live for the people who love me rather than dieing for someone who really dont care.
but its so nice to see that some one cares about how i feel..thanks alot for your concern.
i made new frnds,new college,new environment.so it feels better.:-D
i hope you r having a great life too.:-)
i am fine thanks.hope ur doing good too.well i am just trying to cope up with the reality.now much better than i was before.as i have left the place and im living in an other country now.and with my family.my parents are a great support to me.i really have to live for the people who love me rather than dieing for someone who really dont care.
but its so nice to see that some one cares about how i feel..thanks alot for your concern.
i made new frnds,new college,new environment.so it feels better.:-D
i hope you r having a great life too.:-)
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Hi mistrusted,
It is good to see that you are positive. And as I can see you have good judgment. It is better to live for someone that cares and loves you. It is important for people to have someone that they can count on. And good thing that you have changed environment. Things can be much easier for you in new environment. Are you satisfied with your new friends?
Thank you for asking. I am doing just fine. Little hot outside, but it is manageable. :-)
It is good to see that you are positive. And as I can see you have good judgment. It is better to live for someone that cares and loves you. It is important for people to have someone that they can count on. And good thing that you have changed environment. Things can be much easier for you in new environment. Are you satisfied with your new friends?
Thank you for asking. I am doing just fine. Little hot outside, but it is manageable. :-)
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its too hot here too.today it was 41.
well new friends are quiet good,the difference is now i just have girl friends....a litle bit scared of guys now.
and as i said maybe because i am a bit stylish,and tall and slim...i was also a model a year before,so people are very atracted towards me.all the guys here are like dying to go on a date.but i have never confessed it that i am scared of guys and dont want to be in a relationship ever again.i just ask them i am not interested.:-D
hey dark_red...you seems to be a doctor.wht actually are you by profession?
it seems you are so satisfied with your life.
well new friends are quiet good,the difference is now i just have girl friends....a litle bit scared of guys now.
and as i said maybe because i am a bit stylish,and tall and slim...i was also a model a year before,so people are very atracted towards me.all the guys here are like dying to go on a date.but i have never confessed it that i am scared of guys and dont want to be in a relationship ever again.i just ask them i am not interested.:-D
hey dark_red...you seems to be a doctor.wht actually are you by profession?
it seems you are so satisfied with your life.
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Hi mistrusted,
if you still are not ready to go out with guys, don't. Just say that you are not interested. That should be enough. You have to feel comfortable to go out on a date. But you have to understand also that you have to go out sometimes with some guy. If you are interested in someone, try to find out as much as you can about him, and then if he fits you then decide will you go out with him or not.
I'm not a doctor. I really couldn't do this kind of a job, I really admire everyone out there who can. I think I wouldn't be able to stand too much blood and all the problems regarding this. But I'm pretty interested in this field and like ti give my opinion and a suggestion if I can. I like to help. :-)
if you still are not ready to go out with guys, don't. Just say that you are not interested. That should be enough. You have to feel comfortable to go out on a date. But you have to understand also that you have to go out sometimes with some guy. If you are interested in someone, try to find out as much as you can about him, and then if he fits you then decide will you go out with him or not.
I'm not a doctor. I really couldn't do this kind of a job, I really admire everyone out there who can. I think I wouldn't be able to stand too much blood and all the problems regarding this. But I'm pretty interested in this field and like ti give my opinion and a suggestion if I can. I like to help. :-)
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well i still am not interested in anyone....the guys with good looks are worst by heart...and those with good hearts are commited....so no chance any where in near future....and i myself need a break ;-)
i have taken admission in medicine.and im gona be doctor in 5 years now.so lets see how it goes.mayebeafter some years i will be answering people's questions :-)
i have taken admission in medicine.and im gona be doctor in 5 years now.so lets see how it goes.mayebeafter some years i will be answering people's questions :-)
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