how important is sex in a relationship?

Samantha, I'm a bit concerned....I know I'm a newbie to the relationship scene but I don't really think its fair for you to already be critisizing him on the size of his penis, when you haven't even seen what he can do. I just feel that you might be looking down at him already...For some reason what you wrote gives me some sort of feeling that your expecting the sex to be bad.

Its not the size that matters, its how he uses it, so maybe wait and see how he performs and if its not working than ask the questions about what to do...if your expecting the sex to be bad, 9 times out of 10 it will be cause thats whats all in your mind.

I'm not trying to be offensive, I just feel for your bf, be easy on him and enjoy what you have, and work on the stuff that needs work on once you experience it a few times.

I wish you the best of luck.

-Canadian Girl

Actully thank you for your advice. your write of course maybe i'm jumping to conclusions before i have any evidence.. i will definately take you advice to heart. he doesn't deserve that.

I think you and him will do fine, just try to make the best of it, and if doesnt work, then it doesn't work....Good Luck. I'm glad I didn't offend you.

-Canadian Girl