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You sound like a very considerate girl, which is nice.
Speaking as a man who had a rough start in the romance department, I have to tell you that boys can be the most fragile things in the world. And, if a boy has a screwed up first experience, it will only make him feel anxious in his second, and a bad cycle can begin. My advice would be to try to remove as many possible distractions and disturbances from the situation as possible. Then, you have to try to make it as low pressure as possible. Set up the right conditions, but then just let things happen as they happen. If he stumbles, don't fret, don't make a big deal about it, and DON'T be the reassuring mother. Just go back to kissing or whatever, and pretend you didn't notice. If the time is right, things will work out.
However, at a higher level, I'm a little worried to hear that he might love you, and you are not so serious. That could be really bad. The thing is this - if you like him "as a friend," and he wants you as a lover, that just won't work out. You have three options:
1) Have a serious talk with him. Tell him that you just don't feel that way with him, and that you'd like to be just friends. This is most honest, but he will be crushed. But, he'll get over it.
2) Take him through his first sexual experience, but then have the serious talk with him, and let him know that you were only trying to help. This is less honest, but it could be helpful to the boy in the long run. However, giving him a taste and then taking it away is sort of cruel. He may still be crushed, in the end. But, he'll get over it.
3) Just let your feelings take you where they will. Maybe you'll fall in love with him... who knows. But, if the fire just isn't there, just tell him that you don't feel it, and get him to find another girl.
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i hav an account online for like meeting new ppl and stuff like for relationships and he is my friend on there. i put on there that i wanted a serious relationship and he got wicked upset saying stuff like i want a relationship jus not with him and i kinda loed and told him i didnt really mean it so idk i feel so mean to him bit its not my fault i dont loke him loke that right
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I feel like that’s basically rape if he starts crying his heart out... :/ um so don’t do that. Even though it feels good to do that but being raped doesn’t feel good for both genders. (Assuming their is only two genders)
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