my husband is 40 years old and he never wants to have sex with me, every once in a blue moon he will. I am a very very attractive woman, I have men always wanting to know if I am single. I dont understand why he doesnt want to have sex with me and when he does, it is always the same position and he has an orgasim way before me, its like he doesnt care about me, he says he cant control that. He watches tv sometimes when I am taking care of him??? help me
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this might hurt your feelings but it sounds like he is bored with you. not because you aren't attractive but because he has had the same thing for the past how ever many years you have been married.
i told my husband once that i was going to leave him for another man once.he had bad porn problems and wouldn't touch me. so when i told him this he acted like he was shocked. i didn't want to stay with a man who didn't desire me or want me, but wanted to look at other naked women and touch himself. F*** that! i told him that i was ashamed of being his wife and that i wanted i real man who wanted me back and didn't need porn, that just needed me. he cried!! i left for a couple of days so he could see what a huge mistake he made. He saw it.
i came back home and we have never had a problem since. sex is funner now.
what you need to do is ask yourself how much more of being ignored and being deprived are you willing to take from the one man who is supposed to love you more than anything in the world? will you stay unhappy for the rest of your marriage to make him happy? it's not supposed to work like that.
i told my husband once that i was going to leave him for another man once.he had bad porn problems and wouldn't touch me. so when i told him this he acted like he was shocked. i didn't want to stay with a man who didn't desire me or want me, but wanted to look at other naked women and touch himself. F*** that! i told him that i was ashamed of being his wife and that i wanted i real man who wanted me back and didn't need porn, that just needed me. he cried!! i left for a couple of days so he could see what a huge mistake he made. He saw it.
i came back home and we have never had a problem since. sex is funner now.
what you need to do is ask yourself how much more of being ignored and being deprived are you willing to take from the one man who is supposed to love you more than anything in the world? will you stay unhappy for the rest of your marriage to make him happy? it's not supposed to work like that.
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