i am a 13 year old virgin and i have not started my period and i masturbate is this bad if not help me because i dont get pleasured
Hi LovelyM
Puberty or periods in girls is a varying factor, some girls start periods when they are 9 years old. By 14 many have periods, only some being periods around 16. If you have other puberty changes - growth of breasts, nipple, areola, voice, pubic hair, armpit hair - periods maybe just around the corner.
Another factor that contributes to periods or rather regularity is weight - if you are skinny, you may get late periods. On other hand if a girl is plump, she will have early periods.
So, if you are normal otherwise, no need to worry. If you do not have other puberty changes - consider visiting your healthcare provider
I'm not sure what your question is. I think maybe you want to know if it's bad to masturbate when you haven't started your periods yet. There's nothing wrong with masturbating before they begin. If you wonder if that's the reason you don't feel the pleasure you are expecting that has nothing to do with it. You simply need to keep trying until you find what works for you.
You need to play with your clit until you get the desired results. I hope you're not inserting things in your vagina as that does very little for most girls and women as far as creating an orgasm.
ITS OK IM 14 AND I STILL HAVEN'T STARTED.
TRY THIS FOR AN ORGASIM:
What you'll need:
A pillow (of your own)
A cushion (of your own)
A book or a hard bath pillow (of your own)
Your bed
You
Alone time
what i do is (steps):
1. get yourself in the mood by lying on your stomach on your bed with something hardish in your pillow cover as well as your pillow like a book or a hard bath pillow, then rub the top of your vagina on it pretend its the person you like.
2. after this then snog a pillow pretending it's the person you like.
3. Grab your cushion and then (this is what i do)
4. i lie on my bed on my back with my legs open
5. get the cushion and turn it so the corners on your vagina then cross your legs and turn to the side
6. hold cushion to chest
7. the while the cushion is there and you have you legs crossed and lying on your side rock you legs and kind of squeeze at the same time
8. after a little while you will feel almost like a pulse down there and you feel your vagina almost gently squeezing itself.
9 this is then an orgasim and it feels great.
10. plus you can do it silently.
11. after you will have a white line which will be wet or just a wet patch on your cushion.
There you go it feels amazing please try it as soon as you find this. I've been doing this since i was 10 and now im 14 and i do this all of the time. The best thing to do is imagine your having sex with the person who you like no matter what age they are (that's what i do).
Hope this helps and works and feels as well for you as it does for me
TRY THIS FOR AN ORGASIM:
What you'll need:
A pillow (of your own)
A cushion (of your own)
A book or a hard bath pillow (of your own)
Your bed
You
Alone time
what i do is (steps):
1. get yourself in the mood by lying on your stomach on your bed with something hardish in your pillow cover as well as your pillow like a book or a hard bath pillow, then rub the top of your vagina on it pretend its the person you like.
2. after this then snog a pillow pretending it's the person you like.
3. Grab your cushion and then (this is what i do)
4. i lie on my bed on my back with my legs open
5. get the cushion and turn it so the corners on your vagina then cross your legs and turn to the side
6. hold cushion to chest
7. the while the cushion is there and you have you legs crossed and lying on your side rock you legs and kind of squeeze at the same time
8. after a little while you will feel almost like a pulse down there and you feel your vagina almost gently squeezing itself.
9 this is then an orgasim and it feels great.
10. plus you can do it silently.
11. after you will have a white line which will be wet or just a wet patch on your cushion.
There you go it feels amazing please try it as soon as you find this. I've been doing this since i was 10 and now im 14 and i do this all of the time. The best thing to do is imagine your having sex with the person who you like no matter what age they are (that's what i do).
Hope this helps and works and feels as well for you as it does for me