I am a newlywed of 6 months. Of course I have had a sexual life in my single days, but my husband seem different than other men. I am 40 and he is 7 years younger than me, 33. This is my first marriage and not really knowing how it should be after marriage, I don't know if our sex life is normal. It seems he is less interested in sex than other men I have dated. I am used to men wanting sex more than I do, around 2,3 times a day or atleast everyday. My husband, however, seems to want it only twice a week. Most of the time I initiate.
When I found out his erection lasts even after his ejaculation, I thought it would be great, since I really enjoy sex, especially with him. It takes a long time for me to come to the first orgasm, but quickly come to multiples after the first one. But he won't let me touch him after first ejaculation. He doesn't go for other rounds. Never twice in a day. Never consecutive days. What good is it if you don't use it?
Before marriage, when we were dating, we ended our dates with sex almost every time. There were times we saw each other everyday. He didn't mind then, but why the change? I have asked him but he just says he doesn't want to get too tired and says no more.
I need good advices. Is this normal where sex lessens after marriage? At six months? Could he be bored? What am I doing wrong? How can I liven up the bed scene to make it more exciting? I only have questions. Please help.
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I don't have time to respond right now, but I plan to do so in the near future. Maybe tomorrow. My wife might come speak with you too. Hopefully we can help you figure this all out. Not only do people's sex drives differ, hormonal problems can be an issue. I have personal experience with this and it could very easily lead to what you are describing. I will tell you more about it as soon as I can.
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It has been a couple of days now and I was wondering if you would still like to talk about this. I apologize for not being able to talk about it sooner, but I believe we can discuss it now if still want. We can share what happened to us and see if that could be part of the issue you are experiencing.
Anyways, please let me know if you would like us to go into it.
Thanks,
Miles (HypnoMorph)
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I envy you. I recently married. We went from having sex around 2 times a week (which was less than I would have liked, with other boyfriends I was a 1-2 times a day gal) to now about once every six weeks. We are in love, affectionate, but my husband no longer has any libido. It is breaking my heart- everything else is perfect.
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