i am a virgin!!!...but m confuse and afraid that my hymen is broken or not..!

Hi Maryam! OK I'm confused! So you were just friends with the 1 guy? the 2nd does NOT count as you were caught off guard! So what exactly happened with the 1st guy - kissing, cuddlying, holding hands, almost sex? Anything like that? IF it was just friends - as in the same as girl friends! Then you did NOT cheat on him and you DEFINITELY didn't cheat on him with the 2nd guy! The 2nd guy was NOTHING and you were trapped! It's the same as saying if a woman was raped then she cheated! And believe me some men HAVE said that to young girls - after they were raped - as did the family! 

hey its very complicated story do not get yourself tangled in it!!! you wouldn't understand its a long story about our relationship in all!!!

im so sry but i had sex wid a guy n i think i broke my hymen..bt i dint bleed so much...jus once a lil..n now im scared whtr i have my hymen intact or no...if  have broken it by chance..thn wt if i plan to get married aftr maybe 5 yrs...cn i bleed even a lil on my wedding nyt??or wil my vagina b tighter..?so tht atlst my would b husbnd could think tht hymen might have borken by mistake bt im a virgin...as my vagina wil b tighter by thn..plz helpppp!!!

Honey you just need to shut up and listen to these ladies here this is slightly ficked

hey bambi i had sex with my girlfriend,
before sex she was told me that she is virgin
but during sex she didnt bleed...
her past boyfriend told me that they had sex...
what should i do?
trust on her or him(her past boyfriend)
please reply.....

hello maryam , i started having sex since 5 years ago and i just lost !! i never bleeded ! my first boyfriend thought that i had relations b4 but the truth was he was the first one ! it depends on the size and what type of hymen u have , i took him with me to the doctor to make let him make sure am still a V , and i am a horse rider and i do all types of sports , my advice to u is let him go to the clinic o hospital with u to make him see and make sure u r saying the truth

Being a virgin means you haven't had any kind of sexual contact with another person.

"Fingerbanging" is sex. Anal sex is sex. By limiting your view of "virginity" to a definition that only describes penis-in-vagina sex, you're actually being really homophobic towards people who have gone their whole lives with same-sex partners and have never had sex with someone of the opposite gender.

By the way, you can get sexually transmitted diseases from people's mouths and hands. How can you get STDs if it's not sex? Simple, because it is.

If you're concerned with not 'losing' your virginity, keep your pants on.

If your boyfriend is treating you like c**p because he doesn't think you're a virgin, you need to get a new boyfriend.

Also, the "hymen" isn't this massive impenetrable wall that needs to be bashed apart to get access to the vagina.  Your hymen already has an opening in it- if it didn't, your blood wouldn't be able to come out when you have your period.  It is an extremely thin membrane that covers part of your vaginal opening, if you were born with one at all (some people aren't).  If you do horseback riding or other sports, you probably tore yours already (assuming you had one).  You can also tear it using a tampon.  If you have one, and the first time you have penetrative sex it is done very gently, it probably stretched your hymen instead of tearing it, which is why you didn't see any bleeding.  

For all of you people who REALLY DON'T KNOW, please stop spreading misinformation.  And please stop with this whole "penis-in-vagina sex is the only kind of sex that counts" bullcrap.  People who have that impression think that other sexual behavior (like oral sex and anal sex) is okay because the penis isn't going in the vagina, and then they don't use protection and they can catch all kinds of diseases.  

Some of which can render them infertile.

Are you ready to give up on having children for the rest of your life?  No?  Then STOP HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX.

If a penis has not penetrated your vagina then you are still a virgin.... most guys don't even know what a hymen is or how to tell if its been broke

You girls don't understand, What he has said is any penetration of the vagina with any object, finger, brush handle, anything that enters the vagina is likely to tear the Hymen, and many modern age girls who rode bicycles as a child could also rupture the hymen, all those old storys about any tests are absurd, there are no tests for kissing, licking, or hickies are just stories made up during thirld world countries when they believed that birds were gods. If you never had been penetrated by a penis, then you are a virgin. If you tore the hymen with a hairbrush when you were younger and tore your hymen, what is he going to do, beat the hairbrush for cheating on him??? Get real the myth about being a virgin is nonsense and shoud not be a test for faithfulness. For a women to have pain and bleeding it would have to be because it was rough sex, if you have gentle sex the first time slowly for hours, their may not even be any pain or bleeding. What drivel these myths were in those days. Fall in love, don't fall on love.

WTF..... I do no know how many peoples penis's u have seen, BUT my Frenulum is STILL VERY VERY MUCH in tact... It can rip/tear a little cut from sex and from masturbation, but it stays pretty much there, IT IS RARE that the frenulum isnt there. When a child get's circumsized and the child begins to grow along with the penis, the circumsion can be cut to far causing the frenulum to break and be completely gone but other than that THE FRENULUM STAYS VERY MUCH IN TACT UNLESS IT HAS BEING SURGICALLY REMOVED.... 1. look up some porn stars, they have more sex then most of us would, a lot of the men still have them... unless they are circumsized then some men wont have them... BUT pretty much all men have them....

u marry with me

Okay. The people on this question are just plain stupid. If someone else toches your vag then you arent a virgin. Period. The hymen has no barring on whether you're a virgin or not. This isn't 1600s women and girls do more than sit still in a house sewing. Lol that being said.... I lost my virginty at 15 it was both our firat time and very slow veey gentle no bleeding from hymen. Then at 17 I had a partner and blood (lots of it) went everywhere! Worse than a period. Then 6 months later(no sex in the 6 months) I had sex again and again loads of blood. And with that partber I had sex like 7/8 times before it quit bleeding during sex..... now 7 years later I am married with 2 kids and still have part of my hymen. And of we get "rough" it bleeds. So as I said hymen means nothing. If you've let anyone besides yourself touch ur vagina then you aren't a virgin. If you've ever rode a bike, horse, any kind of rollercoaster where u stradle the seat, or if you've ever mastrubated, used tampons, or even just explored it vag with ur fingers to see whats down there then your hymen may alrwady be broken. ......my question to you is.... where the heck are you from that its normal for any man to ask you about your hymen? Or normal for you andyour female friend to ddiscuss each others hymens? .... this is just not normal. And as for the creeper u call a bf.. tell him to f**k off you don't need him he sounds like a prick. And as for the weirdo on jere asking you to marry him...what the hell you don't even know this chick!

Yeah this story gets confusing at times

I have put my finger in to my vagina. but there wasn't any bleeding. whats that mean??? Am I not a Virgin??? please explain..

That does not prove you are not a virgin.