I've been dating this guy for approx. 1 month and even if I try, I can't cum. I am sexually and emotionally attracted to him.
So that would be the last of all problems. The past guys I have slept with didn't make me orgasm either.. I don't know what it is.
It frusterates my bf alot(me more so because he doesn't think he pleases me) and he says "you're going to leave me because
you don't wanna be a with a guy that can't make you cum" or "it's my fault" I feel bad because I know it's not him, it's me. He is
very good at sex and oral also. He does everything right and mixes things up a bit, but I kind of think I don't cum because he only
lasts 5-10 mins before he cums and stops. When he rubs my clit it feels so good, but I don't cum. I orgasm though. Is that normal? %-)
So that would be the last of all problems. The past guys I have slept with didn't make me orgasm either.. I don't know what it is.
It frusterates my bf alot(me more so because he doesn't think he pleases me) and he says "you're going to leave me because
you don't wanna be a with a guy that can't make you cum" or "it's my fault" I feel bad because I know it's not him, it's me. He is
very good at sex and oral also. He does everything right and mixes things up a bit, but I kind of think I don't cum because he only
lasts 5-10 mins before he cums and stops. When he rubs my clit it feels so good, but I don't cum. I orgasm though. Is that normal? %-)
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Totally normal! Not ALL women are able to ejaculate, not that long ago doctors and specialists said it was a "myth" Since you are having an orgasm that is the BIG one! It is irrelevant if you ejaculate or not! It can have to do with how hydrated you are, and also if you feel like you are going to urinate and don't understand that this is ejaculate! As long as your sex life is "concluding" then there is NOTHING to worry about! You can research it further to see if you are able to "learn" how to do it! BUT I think that you either can or can't and neither is a reason to be upset about it!
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Yes, for years I have had this problem an have struggled with wondering why I can't and why some girls can do it by the snap of a finger over and over again. And my fiancé is constantly thinking of new ways to make me "squirt"...bc I can have the feeling by clit stimulation but u can't actually ejaculate. Ive searched the web and talked to several ppl and all I can say is you have to find what works for you and try different things until you actually cum! One of my problems is when I feel like I'm going to pee, I tell him to stop but he says no that means your going to cum. And several ppl have told me this so I am going to let go next time and try it! Good luck!
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