hello my name is hayley
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i have never had an orgasm or cummed and before him i was with someelse 4 nearly 2 yrs and i never could cum then WHATS wrong with me? please help me as this is holding me back in my relationship! i have never told anyone this before but i feel like this is my only option as im am too shy to go to the doctors.......
Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i have never had an orgasm or cummed and before him i was with someelse 4 nearly 2 yrs and i never could cum then WHATS wrong with me? please help me as this is holding me back in my relationship! i have never told anyone this before but i feel like this is my only option as im am too shy to go to the doctors.......
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Hi Hayley: I want you to know that women who have the ability to ejaculte is VERY small! Some doctors don't believe that it even happens - but it does! What people get confused with is the word "Orgasm" and Cuming/Ejaculation - An Orgasm for a man IS Ejaculation, and ALL the other sensations of climaxing! For a woman to Orgasm doesn't have to include Ejaculation! Orgasm is the sense that EVERY nerve in your body is going WILD! It is the point where you can't handle one more second! Female Ejaculation is the opposite it is TOTAL release - just like a man! So they aren't the same thing!
When EVER you have had sex or masturbated, have you ever reached that point of hysteria - for the lack of a better word? Does anything about the "act" give you intense pleasure? If yes - you ARE having an Orgasm!, IF no - I would suggest you making an appointment with your doctor to have your blood tested for any hormone imbalances! Progesterone is our sex hormone! It is the hormone that makes us ovulate - thus the sex drive! Also know one other thing, even though ALL the tv shows and movies and magazines show all these sexy women looking like they are having Sex constantly! Just remember that woman/females have sex for making babies - not saying that's the only reason of course ;-) ! But instinctively that IS our goal! Do you know that around the time of a womans period we are attracted to men with better jobs and more stability?!!! o.O That is the natural order of things, we are looking for the best "Father" for our children! Just like ALL the other females in the world of the animal kingdom.
Even though hormones control us, our brain is the biggest sex organ we have! IF we have negative feelings about sex or pleasuring ourselves or each other, our brain will put the Kobosh on our sex drive like NOTHING else. So try and really think if you have any hangups about sex! Did you have a bad experience? Have you ever experienced pain? Were you ever told it was a bad thing? etc. etc. And the REALLY big one, are you sexually attracted to your boyfriend? And do you ever fantasize about either your BF or any other male? There's a lot to say about stress and sexual feelings too! If you are highly stressed, this will TOTALLY take affect on you! So just really think about what I've asked you OK? And see if there is a pattern! IF everything turns out "normal" and you still are having problems, the next stop should be your doctors for a blood test! There is no use feeling bad or like an "IT" when there is help! And believe me honey you are DEFINITELY NOT the only one with these feelings.!!! Good luck and health honey!
When EVER you have had sex or masturbated, have you ever reached that point of hysteria - for the lack of a better word? Does anything about the "act" give you intense pleasure? If yes - you ARE having an Orgasm!, IF no - I would suggest you making an appointment with your doctor to have your blood tested for any hormone imbalances! Progesterone is our sex hormone! It is the hormone that makes us ovulate - thus the sex drive! Also know one other thing, even though ALL the tv shows and movies and magazines show all these sexy women looking like they are having Sex constantly! Just remember that woman/females have sex for making babies - not saying that's the only reason of course ;-) ! But instinctively that IS our goal! Do you know that around the time of a womans period we are attracted to men with better jobs and more stability?!!! o.O That is the natural order of things, we are looking for the best "Father" for our children! Just like ALL the other females in the world of the animal kingdom.
Even though hormones control us, our brain is the biggest sex organ we have! IF we have negative feelings about sex or pleasuring ourselves or each other, our brain will put the Kobosh on our sex drive like NOTHING else. So try and really think if you have any hangups about sex! Did you have a bad experience? Have you ever experienced pain? Were you ever told it was a bad thing? etc. etc. And the REALLY big one, are you sexually attracted to your boyfriend? And do you ever fantasize about either your BF or any other male? There's a lot to say about stress and sexual feelings too! If you are highly stressed, this will TOTALLY take affect on you! So just really think about what I've asked you OK? And see if there is a pattern! IF everything turns out "normal" and you still are having problems, the next stop should be your doctors for a blood test! There is no use feeling bad or like an "IT" when there is help! And believe me honey you are DEFINITELY NOT the only one with these feelings.!!! Good luck and health honey!
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