Ok, so I'm 18 and I used to masterbaute 5-7 times a week sometimes multiple times a day mostly while looking at porn. I never had any problems getting it up when I was with girls or by myself, until a few months ago. I was having sex with this girl and I could just not keep it up. She would give me oral sex and that would get it up some but when we went back to vaginal sex I could not keep it up. This was pretty embarrassing for me and I haven't had much sexual interaction since. Now I've attempted to stop masterbauting so often, but for some reason I seem to only get erections now when I'm aroused. I also feel like sometimes my erections are soft and don't stay up very long. I feel this could just be me thinking that way and it's not actually how it is. Now there's this other girl who were both really into each other, but I'm afraid to engage in any sexual acts, because I'm afraid that I won't be able to keep it up and I'll embarrass myself. Now I feel that this is mainly Psychological, but I feel I won't be satisfied until I'm able to know the way my penis has been acting is normal. Any advice would be appreciated, I really need some help : /. Thank You.
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Your body is perfectly normal as you have had successful sexual relationships in the past - so please don't worry. I agree that this is probably a phychological problem - the more you worry the less likely you are to perform. You need to relax and take it easy - don't rush into sex - take time with your new girlfriend to explore each others bodies without the pressure of expecting sex - you will regain your confidence and learn to enjoy sex again. Good luck, John
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