ok so i have never had sex before but i've gotten fingered by my boyfriend. but i cant really feel anything, once i did a little but that was it. i dont know if its me or if he just doesnt know what he's doing?? when i try to masturbate it dont really work. is there any advice or moves my boyfriend could do to help? i just want to have an orgasm :-( because i dont want to have sex yet but i do want to atleast feel something, help please.
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How old are you guys?
Is he just sticking his fingers in your vagina, or is he rubbing your clitoris - or both? Some girls respond better to clitoral stimulation, some respond better to vaginal - and some prefer a combination of both. YOU have to figure out exactly what works for you! If something starts to feel good, talk to him - tell what you want him to do...or not to do.
Good luck - any more questions, let us know!
Is he just sticking his fingers in your vagina, or is he rubbing your clitoris - or both? Some girls respond better to clitoral stimulation, some respond better to vaginal - and some prefer a combination of both. YOU have to figure out exactly what works for you! If something starts to feel good, talk to him - tell what you want him to do...or not to do.
Good luck - any more questions, let us know!
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we're 17. he kinda just sticks his fingers in..... and i have no idea what i want? we've tried to experiment but we just get frusturated cuz nothing works then it hurts sometimes and then he gets all down and it just turns out horrible when we try! :-(
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My advice is for you to try thing on your own first. Make sure you have plenty of time - and are relaxed. Just try stuff to see what you can do to make yourself feel good!
Do you feel like you are getting 'turned on' when you are doing this stuff? Girls need to get more aroused sometimes than a guy ever does to have an orgasm - or even to feel good! You certainly need to be aroused enough that you get natural lubrication going.
Good luck!
Do you feel like you are getting 'turned on' when you are doing this stuff? Girls need to get more aroused sometimes than a guy ever does to have an orgasm - or even to feel good! You certainly need to be aroused enough that you get natural lubrication going.
Good luck!
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