hi I am 17 years old and well my boyfriend came over to my house n we were cuddling n kissing n well that took us on having sex but I dnt know what happen he keeped on telling me it doesn't want to go in n wen he try it did hurt and does a guy all ways feels wen he come or no an well am so worry because I don't want to be pregnant is their any changes? And I also told him to go buy me the plan b pills n he said not that I would be fine. Can u place help me i dnt know wut is going on. :(
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IF it was unprotected - no condom - and he insterted in to your vagina - even for a second - you COULD be pregnant! and IF this happened less than 72 hours again, you should get the morning after pill! It's HIS responsibility! As it was he that insisted on putting it in! And tell him that ANYTIME you have unprotected sex - no matter how long or tat you are dry! HE can't see sperm (there are 1 million in each tablespoon of ejaculate! So he hasn't a clue if he has sperm or not! and I have counselled several girls on here that have become pregnant from precum! So tell him to get over to the pharmacy!
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So what your trying to tell me that if I don't get my period this week I can be pregnant even thoe yesterday I soppeted????
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OK! So you just had your period, when you had the unprotected sex? IF so you should be fine - as 99% of the time you will ovulate 14 days before your next period or 14 days after! This does NOT mean that you can't get pregnant any other time! Women can ovualte ANY time due to hormones, illness, stress, etc. So keep that in mind too - you probably wont know when you are ovulating! And sperm can also live for several days!
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We I has sex Saturday 25th and I need to be getting my period the 28th or the 30th so am so scare and well 2 of my friends told me I will be fine because he didnt cumm on me but i dnt know am so scare they told me to stop worrying because I can be pregnant but not with a baby it will be just water. But I dont know
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Considering your not on birth control and he didn't have a condom on.. Well you have every right in the world to be freaking out. If you were on the pill then if say don't sweat it unless he came inside of you. Honestly you should ether yell at him or get mad cuz he won't respect you enough to get you something that could be crusial to your life right now. Yet don't stress to much because stress can cause missed periods. So over all your a big girl go and get the pill yourself if your that Woried and get a test if you miss.
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Eugenia! I am SO confused here honey! First you said that on the 26th you stopped (I think that is what you were trying to say as you typed "soppeted" Were you on your period when you had unprotected sex? OR did you have unprotected sex on the 25th and your period was supposed to be today?
I can NOT say for 100% certainty that you are not pregnant! No ONE can! IF your periods are always regular, you haven't been on the pill, you haven't been stressed out or sick, I will say with about 85% certainty that you are NOT pregnant - as your ovulation should have happened on the 14th of June!
You tell your boyfriend that you COULD be pregnant - I want you to scare the heck out of him! And I hope that your period starts any day here! So please tell me when you start OK?
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Yes I had unprotect sex the 25th and I need to have my period the 28 or the 30. And my 2 friends had told me am fine but i don't know. I am so scare and I think that's what is making me stress out about it because I know if I am my mom will kick me out and yeah I know is my fault and my boyfriend hasn't answer my calls or text. And I just hope am not as cute a baby can be but not know. Place help me I have been crying none stope every day night and day ***this post is edited by moderator *** ***
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We can't personal email honey - as things have to be upfront! I am pretty sure you are NOT pregnant honey, as you are being stressed about this AFTER you would have ovulated! You would have ovulated on or about June 14 - 16th! You should be fine and you need to relax so that your stress doesn't stop your period or delay your period! Obviously your boyfriend is NOT being a responsible man here and him not answering your texts just shows what a jerk he is! And DON'T play that game honey! There is NO use telling him - and with the possibility this gets back to your mom - and ALL hell will break loose from your lie! He is a JERK and just walk away after this! This fright has shown you what kind of person he is, and you should NOT loose your virginity to him - when he couldn't care less. So just relax OK and let your period come on! Let me know if it hasn't come on by Saturday!
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Well today after I read what we were talking about I don't know it made me stop thinking about it so much but my boyfriend texted me today and he said that he didn't pay his phone so he called me from his sisters and all that but yeah you think that am 100% am good because I told him I am 3 days late all ready and he told me that he was sure theirs no baby in me because wen we did it he wasn't exited when we did it and that the guy has to be exited is that true? And that I can't be because he never came.... And like you said let's hope I get it 2morrow the 30 and what happens if I don't get it by Saturday??? But am trying to stop thinking about it what do you think is good for that?
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Tell him he doesn't know what he's talking about! Sperm can be on or in his penis, and how did he get it in you IF he wasn't hard? Also when a man becomes hard a substance called "Pre Cum" lubricates the penis for easier penetration, and this fluid CAN have sperm in it! But for now don't think about it OK!? The more you stress about it the more delayed the period will be - it's called hysterical pregnancy!
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So every thing he told me was not true he wasnt hard that I don't think so he was. But what about my upper stomac pain I want that pain some were else..... And my boobs hurt and I just try not thinking about it and I tell my self no am not no am and no I can't be I dnt know what else I can do.....
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These are also symptoms of pre period and I am VERY sure you are not pregnant! Just relax honey - you freaking out MIGHT cause a delay in your period - which will stress you out more!
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yeah i know i am trying to stop thinking about it. i htink you and my friend are the ones helping me more because i dont know what i would of done by now if i would of not talked to you guys. and i hope what are some symptoms of pre period???? like i dont get thecrams till am on my period and all this upper stomac pain i never had it.
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When you boyfriend says he wasn't hard, are you sure he made it in? Or did he just try and the limp penis just hurt when he was trying to push it in?
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