I lost my virginity a little over a week ago. Unprotected (Yeah, I know, bad idea), and havent had sex since then. Everything was just fine until a couple days ago, now i feel weak, dizzy, small headache, and have very little appetite. Yesterday my breasts were a little sore and I had a little bit of cramps/stomach pain, and chills, but those have seemed to have gone away for the most part now. I keep worrying that im pregnant. But would I have symptoms that soon? Or do these things happen after you lose your virginity, is it my body's way of adjusting to having had sex for the first time? Im quite worried. So could this all just be in my head and im worrying myself sick? PLEASE! let me know if you have any ideas what might be going on!! Im kind of desperate!!
my main question though is if your body can do things like this after losing virginity?
just out of curiosity, what is the likelyhood of getting pregnant your first time having sex?
First off never have sex with out proper protection unless you really want a baby and or an STD or infection. I am married to someone and we have only been with eachother and we have been together for 15 years but we still use protection because we do not want another child. To not use it is pure stupidity and laziness.
When I had sex for the first time I had no discomfort, no pain bleeding, cramping or anything.
If a girl is due to have her period in say about a week, chances are she is ovulating or about to and therefor protection is a must until after her period is gone!
Normally (but everyone is differnt to a point) ovulation takes place about a week or so prior to the begining of your period. If you can, pay attention to your body and you will actually be able to feel yourself ovulating. It took me time but now I can and it makes things alot safer.
here is info to deterimne IF you have or are about to ovulate.. may be able to be hlepful to see if your chances of pregnancy were very high during your last sexual experience...
A woman's monthly cycle is measured from the first day of her menstrual period until the first day of her next period. On average, a woman's cycle normally is between 28-32 days, but some women may have much shorter cycles or much longer ones. Ovulation can be calculated by starting with the day the last menstrual period (LMP) starts or by calculating 12-16 days from the next expected period. Most women ovulate anywhere between Day 11 - Day 21 of their cycle, counting from the first day of the LMP. This is what many refer to as the "fertile time" of a woman's cycle, because sexual intercourse during this time increases the chance of pregnancy. Ovulation can occur at various times during a cycle, and may occur on a different day each month.
i lost my virginity a week ago, with a 18 year old
and im 15. he didn't use protection. i had my period
3 days after we had sex, so i didn't think i was pregnant.
but then i realized that it takes 6-12 days to start getting
signs. i had a longer then usually period, and i went all day
yesterday without it and it started back today, then i read
that between 6-12 days if you start bleeding again you have
the possibility of being pregnant.. im scared, and so is he.
im fifteen.. FIFTEEN!
my first time to have sex, and my whole life
might be ruined..
Unless your guy was really aggressive with you and rough with
your breasts you might be pregnant. My breasts were so sore they
could not be touched and I was pregnant.....had no idea that sore
breasts was a sign of pregnancy.
You all should go get pregnancy tests about 6weeks after your sexual
incounter. If you all are not pregnant then go get tested for STD's.
(Prayerfully they will all come back negative) Then you all should
ALWAYS use a condom. (I used a condom, but it broke at the end that's
how I got pregnant.) Nothing is 100% other than not having sex at all
but you guys have to try to protect yourselves and get on some birth contol. I wasnt on it before but after this baby I will be finding some quick.
Oh and after I lost my virginity I never had any of that stuff happen to me.
My stomach felt a little funny during and after sex in the beginning but once you get used to having sex that should stop (unless you run into a guy that is really large if you get my drift)
But any ways i ask my mom and i go it was like 10pm sunday night when i live my house , no girls exceptt me , andd so i start drinking with this kis i had something with a year ago and so my Ex was there and this Other kid that liked me but w.e i kept drinking buti really dont know how much i drank do to the fact that we were sharing drinks and so i get screwed up and couldnt even walk straight and this kid ( the one i had somehing with a year ago ] took me to the back of the house there we start kissin blah blah blah andd soo he started doing i told him not 2 but i was drunk and i kept on with what ever he was doing and so he started saying some nasty ass sh*t that i will never forget andd he takes off my pants sont remember how it happend but it did then my underwear and he starts well u know and im telling him it hurts and he keeps On and he tells me justt kiss me kiss me and we were standing up then My best friends boyfrind comes walking ( His like a brother to me ] andd find us and i put my pants on and im really scare... But anyway i start Crying and told him that i didnt want him to be my First , and he sayd look Lorena i wasn't your first i didnt go all the way in blah blah blah But my Vigina really hurt i was siting down and when i went to stand up it really hurted..
Well i go home and my underwear is full of blood and the next day There was to spots of blood , Did he take my Virginty or is it possible that im still a virgin?????
This happend 3 days ago and im really down I've been Crying alot and im really digustedd by the guy i dont wann asee him or talkk to him ever again... :(
Ummm well if anyone Can writee about this please and thank You.
Oh the guy didnt use a condomm
Welcome to motherhood.
That is normal for your first time.
You may be worried and that is why you are feeling all of those aches and pains.
For your first time, you are most likely not pregnant.
Don't sweat it.
If you are truly worried, take a pregnancy test.
But the next time you have sex, i recommend protection.