Hello everyone I am 14, I generally masturbate with a soft a penis. Yes this is bad but I cannot stop, now here is the problem. When I ejeculate I do not sperm, but I also feel tired(I know this part is normal) but I also feel...depressed. I never felt depressed after masturbating, this has been going on for some time. ANy tips? Also, I cannot "jerk off" I tried that type of masturbation and it doesn't seem to satisfy me...any tips?
Right now I am thinking to just stop masturbation for a while and try a new style in a bit after, what do you guys think?
Thanks!
Right now I am thinking to just stop masturbation for a while and try a new style in a bit after, what do you guys think?
Thanks!
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Do you have a place to do it where you feel secure?
Did your parents make you think it's a bad thing to do?
Do YOU feel it's bad or wrong?
When you say ejaculate I assume you mean orgasm. Ejaculate means to squirt something out and that's what you don't do ---- right?
At your age I wouldn't worry much about the lack of output. I was about your age when I first began to get a little liquid out of it and I had to stop masturbating under my desk in history class because it left wet spots on my pants. I was upset because that limited when and where I could do it. It was nice being able to get my jollies and remain dry. Be glad you still can, I'm sure the messy stuff will come.
You say you masturbate with a soft penis, then you say, this is bad but you cannot stop. The only thing bad about masturbating with a soft penis is it's a lot more fun with a hard one. Why do you think you should stop? When I was your age I used to masturbate several times a day. Did someone make you feel it's bad? That could have a lot to do with not being able to get an erection and feeling depressed afterward.
My father saw me masturbating once and didn't react to it at all. My mother walked in on me and my cousins in my room having a great mutual masturbation session. She just said, dinner's ready and closed the door. So I never felt there was anything wrong with it and never felt guilty or anything afterwards, but satisfaction.
Your mind has everything to do with your sexual responses. If you have negative feelings about it, or are stressing about getting caught, that could be the problem.
Did your parents make you think it's a bad thing to do?
Do YOU feel it's bad or wrong?
When you say ejaculate I assume you mean orgasm. Ejaculate means to squirt something out and that's what you don't do ---- right?
At your age I wouldn't worry much about the lack of output. I was about your age when I first began to get a little liquid out of it and I had to stop masturbating under my desk in history class because it left wet spots on my pants. I was upset because that limited when and where I could do it. It was nice being able to get my jollies and remain dry. Be glad you still can, I'm sure the messy stuff will come.
You say you masturbate with a soft penis, then you say, this is bad but you cannot stop. The only thing bad about masturbating with a soft penis is it's a lot more fun with a hard one. Why do you think you should stop? When I was your age I used to masturbate several times a day. Did someone make you feel it's bad? That could have a lot to do with not being able to get an erection and feeling depressed afterward.
My father saw me masturbating once and didn't react to it at all. My mother walked in on me and my cousins in my room having a great mutual masturbation session. She just said, dinner's ready and closed the door. So I never felt there was anything wrong with it and never felt guilty or anything afterwards, but satisfaction.
Your mind has everything to do with your sexual responses. If you have negative feelings about it, or are stressing about getting caught, that could be the problem.
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I masturbate sometime 4 or 5 times a day and I'm 70 years old. I love it. I wish more people have the ab ility to do it, so enjoy it while you still have it!
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