I fell in love with much younger man

Hi, read your post just this time, and you're not alone. I'm going thru the same right now. We're almost in the same situation. It's really very tough fighting over it. I'm happy you went for the happiness road. Wishes of lots of love and blessings for you both!!

Heres my question I am 33 with 5 children A 20 yr old guy wants to be with me he says he loves me and wants to have a baby with me I am also a bbw he is slim I have low self esteem and think he deserves better but he says Im whats best for him and he loves me as I am...... Should I follow through with this relationship? I am very sexually attracted to him too am I crazy?

You should follow through with your relationship it will make you both happy.I found out that most women have body shame that their body is not beautiful.
Do you have a full length mirror if you do when you are not rushed and turn off your phone for a little while.Take all your clothes off and stand in front of the mirror and look at your reflection and slowly look at all of you starting at your head and slowly look downward and in your mind repeat I am beautiful it may take a few sessions but it will get better you need to fall in love with yourself then spread the love to others.

You make it public and tell everyone to get over it. It is your relationship and not theirs!

I am very sad that you have low self esteem. Fix your self esteem, then date him but don't go all the way for a long time. See if he makes a deep personal connection with you. Then move forward....

Really enjoyed reading your story. You seem happy and you're dealing perfectly with your situation. Very nice that both men love you so much :)
I'm 40, my man is a very attractive 56, a great man. We've been together 8 years with loads of ups and downs. I have exactly the same problem with my husband, bossy, controlling, hurting me saying mean words, sometimes I want to leave him ... but he loves me... believe me even though its hard to understand... sounds very strange I know but he'll do anything for me, my family and I can count on him since day 1...he really cares for me. However his bossy controlling way and mean words kill the attraction and other feelings.....

Oh God I'm so lost I don't know what to do. I'm almost 42 and married for 20 year's with 2 children. When I was pregnant with our first child my husband cheated. I felt like I owned it to our child to stay and try to make things work. And I did. And along came #2 child. Even though I forgave my husband i never forgot. For anyone that has had that happen to them you lose a part of yourself. I felt it go and it never fully came back. The past 10 years i have watched my husband change. He has gotten to be bitter at times, he lacks patience, and the hardest part was how he treated my brother who I am very close to. About 3 years ago that relationship my brother did something very bad. It has affected everyone and the hatred between my husband and him and my family has really taken a toll on me. I love my husband but i know I'm not in love with him. About 9 months ago I discovered a social game. I didn't start playing it with the intention of cheating. I just thought it looked like fun, something new. I met a few men and it made me feel good to be desired to be wanted. And then i met him. He walked in and i felt it. Like i had been smacked awake. Like my soul screamed out there he is, it's him..he's the one. If you've never felt this before...There are no words to truly decribe it...It is epic, in a word. I never told him what happened that first meeting until much later. And he told me he felt the same but didn't know what say or how to express what he felt. We both felt it. The problem is he has no idea I am married. I chose to keep that part of my life private. I never knew his true feelings and when he told me he was 22 I never saw any point. Never expected him to feel the same for me. And then I was so afraid to tell him...Afraid of hurting him, losing him. I can't hurt him...I know he is my true soulmate and he feels the same...We got married on this game...We talk everday. I want him so desperately but I know I need to let him go... Even if i told him the truth and he still wanted me...I can't give him children. He is a different religion than I am and my family would never accept him...I love him too much for him to give up having children...And he deserves a family that will love him unconditionally. I am a good mom and I try to be a good wife to my husband...But at the end of the day I am a woman...I have desires and feelings and my husband doesn't see me for me...I wonder if he ever did. This man sees me...All of me..its incredible. I'm so lost i don't know what to do anymore. After my family he is the one thing i look forward to every day. We have been together in game now for 7 months...And our love only grows stronger. He wants me...He wants to marry me. I feel like I can't live without him. And if I tell him the truth I will hurt him. I can't hurt him. I feel tremendous guilt. For doing this outside my marriage. For not telling him I am married. I never meant for this to happen...Never planned on this..On him... Please someone help me...

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Hi, I may be in a different situation but on a similarity of loving a younger man. It's been several months now. I tried all I can to distance from him but at the end of the day, I realize why not build on friendship instead. Yes, we both never planned on this. It's confusing for now but pray. it's really tough but consider this, we're not alone. If you give up on him, you may be very lost. Let your love guide you both. At this time, he is there for you. Build a friendship instead and let it grow. Talk to him honestly, the pros and cons- I will be doing the same with my young man. I know the struggles you're going through, went through it as well, cried and avoided him but it never worked. Accept that you're in that situation, let your love be your strength. If still tough for you then talk to him honestly, stay as friends for now but don't let go just like that. Hope this helps and always take care of yourself. Will check your sharing.

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I look much younger than I am. I am 53. My ex is 35. He said he now may want kids some day. So I broke up with him. We lived together. He said he doesn't know what he wants, but obviously, he knows he no longer wants me because kids is not an option. It has been since March 17th. I feel almost recovered. I met a guy about a month ago and we are both so attracted to each other. I thought he was between 38 and 42. Turns out he is 29. So I wrote him off. Yesterday, out of the blue, he asked me out on a date. He does not know my age but there is absolutely no way I am encouraging him by cultivating a friendship. In my experience, when a man and woman are attracted to each other or if the man is the only one attracted, it truly is like the movie "When Harry Met Sally." Men will chase you anyway. I will not put myself through this again. Plus, 24 year age difference really is too much!

AMAZING... I fell for a woman who was 20 years my senior while I was in a horrible marriage. I had never ever felt the same way for any other woman. I feel so incredibly stupid for ending such amazing relationship.

I fell in love with a man 4 years younger to me. He is my husband's younger brother. The relationship broke up. Now I'm in love with a person 115 years younger to me. It all started like thunder lightning. I thought it'll be a soothing balm for me to have love from such a younger person and I believe that age is only a number. What do you think?

The heart wants what it wants. I had a passionate love affair with a 24 year old man just before I left the country to move overseas. I am 46, but look ten years younger. He is the most skilful and dynamic lover I have ever had and he filled my heart with joy. We never discussed age, it seemed irrelevant. Somehow we just met in the middle. I have no idea if I will ever see him again, but I am grateful for our connection. It has taught me that love comes to you in the most unexpected of ways if your heart is open to it.