I fell in love with much younger man

I’m a 44 year old woman, divorced in 2014, and I love having sex with energetic, hot young guys. I was on a float trip with friends and met these young men who were also floating on the river. After some drinks I had sex with 3 of them (18,18 & 19) and the sex was the best in my life so far. These guys were all athletes and were so hot I could not really say no. I was too turned on by them and those hot little bodies. I have met up with them a few times since and I love the way they make me feel! I’m having fun with young men and it’s fabulous. Just typing this is turning me on so I’m gonna call a couple of them and see if they are up for a get together.

I love your story thanks for sharing are y'all still together ? I totally get the insecurity of younger women , what I learned is he could go with them if he wanted he WANTS to be with me . we are ridiculously bonded we enjoy each other as people . we truly like being together . I have zero walls up with him and that is amazing , the feeling of being so free . and mine says the same he reminds me I'm his dream girl and any body flaws i am hard on lyself about he says he LOVES THEM . if i think something is a little soft and jiggly and out of shape he says it's his FAVORITE , THING . it's just so easy for us and we are both very grateful to be ourselves togerther w zero judgment .

Hey, if men can fall in love with and even marry younger women, why can’t women do the same thing with younger men? The people arguing against this are a bit hypocritical.

It’s not at all strange. It mainly has to do with love. Age is subjective. I married my wife, an Asian woman from Hong Kong, when I was 18 and she was 50, though she looks ten years younger and has such a wonderful body. For two years, we have been married; and she gave birth to our son who is now a-year-and-a-half old. We are very happy and very much in love.

I'm 59-years-old, a widow, and have been sleeping with a 30-year-old for a few months and have developed feelings for him. My husband had been having health issues for years before he died and sex was no longer possible. I was sexless for about 7 years until he died. After a couple of years I began dating men my own age and just really wasn't into the sex as it didn't have the fire that my husband and I used to have (and which I was used to).

Then I met a young man who was helping me with some home repair issues and it seemed liked instant lust/love. We ended up in bed that very afternoon and the sex was phenomenal. I hadn't had sex this good for a very long time. And he was able to last a long time inside of me and once he came, after about a half an hour he was able to get hard again and do it again. It was not uncommon for him to fill me 3 times in one afternoon and giving me too many orgasms for me to count.

Of course the problem is our age and I know my daughters would be horrified if they knew what I was doing and with whom. I've realized that there is no future for us, but then I decided why not just relax and have fun with him? So, I'm not emotionally attached and take one day at a time. It seems to work and now that I'm having sex regularly (at least weekly, sometimes more) I feel so much better and mentally sharp. I'm wondering if it's all that semen he's releasing inside of me as I've heard it has a beneficial effect on your mental state.

I was originally from California. My parents and I were on a business trip to the Czech Republic. I was 18 at the time. While there, I met this Czech woman who was 41 but looked a decade younger, never married and never had children. She is more than just beautiful. She’s a goddess. The long hair, pretty face, and a wonderful physique. After getting consent from my parents, I went out on a date with her; and it was love at first sight. It wasn’t her looks that drew me to her; but she is just a soft, gentle, loving person. The night of our date, she took me to her place; and we passionately had sex and slept together until the next morning. When we awoke, I asked her if she wanted to marry me, not caring that we had only just met. To my excitement, she smiled and said yes. My parents saw that I was happy. And so they welcomed her into the family and supported my decision to move in with her. And that’s how it all started for us. My wonderful wife is now 56 and I’m 33, still happily married and have six kids.

I am also in love with a younger man. I’m 59 and he is 39. He asked me out several times before I told him I would meet him for lunch. We see each other 2 times a week for the past 4 months. We are both divorced and really enjoy each other’s company. Neither one of us have a problem with the age difference. We have a lot of fun together and respect each other. I hope this last for a long time. We really click.

Thank you for this great story! I did push my young love away from me, because of my husband and great relationship we have. I am still much in love with my young love and I can't stop thinking about him!

I am so glad to stumble on this forum and read these stories.
I met a younger man, he's 30 im 46, off a dating site after fancying him and chatting from afar he admitted he also liked me. When we met the chemistry was intense and I was shocked how much I enjoyed his company. He is so much fun, easy going and he treats me like a queen. We see each other every second weekend and my family have met him. I havent met any of his friends or family and Im not sure I could. I imagine they would think he was crazy wasting his time with me. I feel Ill have to let him go and do the 'family thing' at some stage but I know it will be heartbreaking as we are so in love.

This what exactly just happened to me. Thank you so much for your story. He started to pursue me last year, but I just agreed to date 3 weeks ago. I'm 44 years old and he is 23 years old. I feel so encouraged to know that this happens to other woman also.

I can't tell you how much this helps me to hear. I believe we are ultimately spiritual beings having a human experience, and linear age is something yes but it's not who we truly are. I don't say that as a cop out for the real complexities of big age gaps at all: but love is love is love, and love doesn't have to look only the way this sick society says it should. As long as it is helping, not hurting especially the two directly involved. I'm sad that many of us here have to be in the closet about this. I have just spent 8 months--platonically in full--with a man who will be 18 next year. I am 2.5 times his age and he is just older than my own son. I am NOT ashamed of the mutual feelings we have, although for me spending those 8 months before he left to go back overseas was the most incredible time of my life--as many have said here, many of these guys are more mature than men our age, by far even, they exhibit characteristics of compassion, wisdom, and work ethic, playfulness, and temperance much beyond their age linearly. I want for both he and I to live life in full and I'm sorry that some folks mentioned that this kind of love is "sick", because it is love, deep love, not just some whim. Plus we never did anything but hug, out of respect and for obvious reasons otherwise. My heart is breaking as he didn't know I felt the way I did until he was literally boarding the plane. I may never see him again although given what we shared I can't imagine there isn't more to our story. I guess the most important thing is to follow the love and do the best we can to stay open to the mystery of life as it unfolds. Any society in this world that condemns only women for this type of relationship is what is sick, not the women or the younger men involved. Love comes in so many forms to our table, and is rare, and when it does come to us, as it has to me in this way, I will be forever thankful, regardless of whether he and I come together more fully in the future.

I love younger men, especially ones who are newly set in their adult years. Full of youth, energy, and innocence. I was 51 when I met and started dating my boyfriend five days after he became 18. Hard to resist a young man so sweet and so sexy. He immediately fell in love with me. How could I say no? I fell for him too. The one thing I did not expect to happen afterwards was me getting pregnant twice in my 50s. I didn’t think that was possible. Yes, I’ve always wanted to have kids, but I thought it was too late for me. I guess the fact that he’s young and more fertile than a man my age was what did it. He really loves being a father. If it weren’t for him, I would’ve never been given the chance to become a mother. I’m now 54 and he is 21, and we have a son who’s 2 and a daughter born couple of months ago. My young man and I are now engaged, and his mother and I (she’s 7 years younger than me) have become good friends.

Your story is sweet. Any true love story is. Age and every other "impediment" are irrelevant when it comes to matters of the heart. Grandparents love their grandkids, people love their non-human pets. So why can't two people love each other regardless of age, regardless of gender, regardless of any superficial or arbitrary difference? I say this as a 61 year old in the process of falling in love with a 25 year old--and it is clearly mutual. Unfortunately society pressures us to hide the relationship, but that's OK I guess. There are a million other things that society doesn't like which we have to keep to ourselves. That's just how society works. What's important however is that the two who love each other remain true and honest with each other. That should be all that really matters.

Wow! I’m surprised to see all the comments on this subject. I can relate, thought I was the only one… guilt and fear tear me up… but it’s the first time I feel real love.

Hello. I am glad I found this site. I need to get this out there. Get this off my chest. I'm 45 and separated from my husband of 26 years. This haven't been going that great so he moved out. I have 4 older children that still live at home. I just found out i am pregnant. The father is a 23 year old guy thats on again off again boyfriend of my daughter. Who are we kidding her. They are just fuxk friends. I let him talk me into being "FWB" friends with benefits. And now i have his baby growing in me. No, we never used birth control. My husband and I never did either. none of my children were a surprise. Including this unborn baby. He asked to get me pregnant and I told him that if he got me pregnant, we had to raise it together. After that he never pulled out and now 6 months later my period didn't come and my breast were sore. I told a dollar store test and it had 2 lines. I haven't told him yet. I never thought I would have gotten pregnant at this age. How long do you think it will late with this boy. In 10 years I will be 56 and he will be wanting to screw younger women. He has said some crazy stuff in bed, like he wants to get my daughter pregnant too and he wants him and his friend to DP me. I also and thinking about aborting it. Just not tell anyone. Cut if off with him. I got some crazy secrets too. !0 or 15 years ago. My husband and I did some swopping and it was with his parents. SO i have had sex with his dad.

I never thought that I would ever find love again after my first husband died. That changed when I met my current husband. I was 62 when I met him, and he was 19. At first, I didn’t think it would be a good idea to date someone so young. But after spending a few moments with him, I became close to him, enough that I decided to kiss him and he kissed me. I then thought to hell with it. Next day, I gained the courage to tell him that I love him. We had sex that night, and it was amazing. We got married five months later and still together after all these years. He’s now 33, and I’m 76. I love him so much. I feel so safe with him, and he makes me feel like a woman again.