I have facesiting fetish and I always have to practically beg for intercourse

Losing faith...

My fiance of almost 5 years now , has a problem, befor i met him i made sure to ask all the questions i needed too befor getting into a relationship.

As i am a very sexual woman , and if i could i would have sex every day or at least 2 times a week  would be great!

He told me he was a sexual man loved sex . ect

then being into the relationship a couple months we didnt have sex just touching, there was always an excuse, like there was people in the house, he was tired, or stressed,  lol

what better cure for stress than sex. but.... whatever.

then after more months he says i have always had a problem since he was a teenager, says  sex didnt interest him that much he rather play sports.lol

then the woman he was with befor me was the same he said he always had a problem wasnt interested in sex ,couldnt get it up because he doesnt feel anything.....

He said it has always been like this.

He is not interested in watching porno... doesnt excite him, nor magazines.

But.... A huge But...

He gets really hard in like 5 seconds flat if he watches facesiting videos, only facesiting videos.

or if he sees camel toes in tight spandex he is hard .

So i know he hasnt got an erectile dysfunction problem , nor poor circulation.

Because he can get hard fast, and cum quick with excitment just by touching himself watching a facesiting video.

and i have watched him in the shower , he get hard washing , and shrinks really fast when i open the door ,lol

so for sure no circulation problems there.

and these videos are clothed with spandex pants or panties, naked doesnt turn him on..

ahhhhh

every time i want sex i have to sit on his face with spandex for him to get hard .

just to jump off really quick to try to get some satisfaction , penetration, but as soon as i do and sit on it he gets soft and says , i cant get it up.... wtf...  sorry the language.

Now i know this is a psychological problem , he seems to be obsessed with facesiting.

i always have to practically beg for sex, and have to dress up to get some, but never fully finish what we started.

I love this man , and i feel he is my soulmate, but i need sexual satisfaction, and masturbation isnt doing the trick anymore. its boring for me.

even if i try to masturbate him, he doesnt get it up unless i talk to him saying things like im siting on your face with tight spandex ect.ect

any professionels out there that can give me advice?

where i live theres no sexual therapists. its a small boring town,lol

Please help! 

Lioness