So I am 17 and my boyfriend is almost 20 in a month. We have been together for a year now and this is the longest relationship for both of us, we have both been through hell and back with our past relationships.. Constantly getting lied to , cheated on, mentally abused, and torn down. Not only that but before we met each other had a hard life from family issues and just life in general, and when we met each other it was an instant love connection, he made the horrible past fade away, and he helped me with my depression and if it wasn't for him I wouldn't be here, he claims I am the reason he is here still, and that he loves me more than anything and as young as we are I know it's dumb to think about this stuff but when you are SERIOUS about someone and your future, you are attached to that. We talked about marriage and children and everything and he was all up for it with all of these promises he made to me and then just the other day he told me that he doesn't want that stuff anymore , marriage and children , which is understandable , because we can wait for that, but he said that I've been stressing him out a lot and I'm not sure how because if anything I help him. He said that when we kiss we don't get that spark anymore and I don't believe in that sh*t because a kiss is a kiss , and he said that there are days where he wants to be alone and that he sees why people take breaks now, and after all the promises he's made to me like " I'll never leave you " " forever and always " is all sh*t now to him . I feel that him not having such a good relationship for this long , and someone who is actually serious about him and the future , it scares him, and he doesn't know how to handle it very well so he is trying to hide away from it . He needs to learn to cope with himself and his issues , instead if letting it affect him and out relationship, you can't just leave someone who is fully committed to you for a year and just leave them because you are basically scared of commitment. I need help, tell me when is wrong with him.