i want a baby at 13

hey just spend alot of time helping other people....believe me i miscarge once after trying to cuz i didn't know about this site...and i now wish i never did anything with that guy...i still have those feelings of wanting one..but remember you are 13...what about prom and gradution...do you not want to go to prom and come to gradution with a baby in ur arms...yea it sounds fun...but you could also lose the baby like i lost my first one....or have the baby and have the guy leave you...and yes i have tired so hard and i tired again lately....after i told my boyfriend about my pain he started to flip out...cuz he is only 14 and he doesn't want a kid cuz he is still a kid himself..and just think about all the things you could do if you wait...believe me i have a friend that has a one year old...and she can't do anything...i can't even go to her house...

also it is really painfull to give birth and to know that you had something growing in you and it DIED in you....if you have to see how much pain it is...go to google vidoe and type in human birth...and see what you get and watch a few of the movies (yes it is gross but do it..it shows you the pain and some of the things that happen during birth))

Children cost a lot of money, and at 13 you don't have a house of your own, a job, an income or any qualifications.

You have your life ahead of you to settle down with a man who loves you, to raise a family. But in order to raise a family you need to be able to support them.

Its good that you realise that its not an option at your age!!!! Trust us, in saying that a good education now will open a doorway for a better life in the future! (sounds real cheesy I know!)