I want to get married and be straight! Am Gay.

ajax over a year ago

Am 29, most of my friends got maried.. a pretty much in last set of people left in my group wh havent gotten married. My parents are pressurizing me to get married. I ve always dreamed of getting married to a wmen and having kids and normal family.

I have been attracted to men from my teen age. I ve acted on it and hate the fact that i liked and sometime i crave for it. I was afraid that I might not get erection with women. So i went to gentle mens club and had lap dance with women in two different occasion. Once i got erection, other time i didnt.

I don't know where it goes from now on. I ve never been with a women so i dont know if i can have successful marriage. I wonder what should be my next step and how to find a girl who will be willing to have sex with me for testing myself.

The social pressue is mounting, My inner desire to have a family and not be alone is also mounting am just wandering aimlessly. :(

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Guest over a year ago

No your not, maybe you are just confuse because you have never been in such situation. I suggest you go ask those people who has going through the same state. It is better to listen to the people with the same issue.

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Gypster231205 over a year ago

Howdy Ajax, Discovering your own sexuality can be one of the most difficult tasks humans face; mostly through teenage years and in some cases throughout our entire life. I cannot tell you wheather you are straight, gay or maybe bicurious; that is something you must ask and discover in yourself. Having other people influence you to rush or confuse you on you're path to finding your sexual preference can be very stressing and sometimes down right unfair but in my personal opinion… Having sex with women or testing erotic women "h****rs" doesn't seem the best way to go about this type of situation. My advise is that you take a step back, analyze yourself and figure out what you really want in life. Wheather it being with a man or women. Nothing is said in stone, so maybe you're thoughts of men may disappeare or may stay. Therapy is a good way to let all you're feelings out and take in some very helpful advise as well. Also, you could try going on dates with both sexes, after a while see which sex you're more interested in and coming to terms with yourself. Finally, families aren't just limited to heterosexual couples. You can have a happy, thriving family with being a homosexual parent. It really doesn't matter the sexuality when you love you're significant one and you're darling children. Best wishes, Gypster

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