im 16, fat and dont have a boyfriend:(

i do not have this problem ... im skinny but got curves ... im popular(well that's what i think ... and my friends to) but i have problems to...ive had a number of boyfriends... and guys love to look at me ... and that's not always a good thing !!!! they are always making sexual coments at me ... they are trying to flirt and "get at me" or try and hook up ... and there was this one guy that i used to date and we've always been close ... so one day we randumly had sex ... no protection or anything...i might be pregnant ... and i told him... now we are constantly fighting and he hates my guts because he thinks that its all my fault.... so right now id rather be in your situation where i dont have any boyfriends or guys trying to hook up with me or go out with me or sex or what ever else...


i have a "fat" friend and let me tell you she is more popular then i am !! she's about 3 or 4 times the size of me... but everyone loves her. this is because she doesnt take atitute from anyone, and people that like that .. she shows people who she really is which is really gud cuz people HATE people that pretend to be someone they're not !!!!! she even has a sexy boyfriend ( but in the end things didnt work out for then cuz he wasnt worth her time) i would give soem advic but i know nothing about you... if you are comferitable .... then tell me how the people you hang out with act around you and the guys to and things that you dont like about people and if people say bad things about you then what.. dont say names though !!! cuz i dont trust the internet like that 

It doesn't mean you will never get a boy friend if you haven't got one so far :) Maybe you think that you're fat. It may look sweet for someone else. But if you're still uncomfortable with it, just go to a nutritionist and get a diet and fitness plan and do whatever it needs without giving up. You will get good results in a few months I guess and then you will feel much more comfortable. Let me tell you, that may not help you to get a boy friend though. Believe me, it's not about being very beautiful and sexy :) Get a diet and fitness plan as soon as possible and do it for yourself! Then you will fee better and happy, that will help you to get a guy. My other advice is to get socialized with many people ;) Good luck.

It's hard at your age because of media indoctrination telling you guys what you should like and what you should look like. It could be difficult for some time. My suggestion is to work on your own mental well being (this goes for everyone) if you are not happy with yourself then you cannot be happy with someone else. If you feel like loosing a little weight will make you comfortable with yourself then do it, but not in excess. Remember some are bigger by nature and I think you'll find later on that there are plenty of men out there who prefer big beautiful women ;)
Getting through those teen years can be rough and painful for everyone.