Always liked the idea. I have been using anal dildos for a while and want something bigger. I can take the length but struggle with the width - over 1.5 inches. Any ideas?
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Hello. I am 44 years old and same situation. After stopping for a while (several months, even years) eventually I came back and do anal masturbation. Right now I am even doing more anal than penis masturbation…..the thing is that the sensations of anal sometimes are great and sometimes not that much. On the other side, when I have sex with my girlfriend or penis masturbation only it feels very good every time……
I don’t have the solution, but it seems that when I am happy with my life, I do not fell to anal stimulation. On the contrary, if I had problems or stress, it seems like I need to get anal stimulation.
I don’t have the solution, but it seems that when I am happy with my life, I do not fell to anal stimulation. On the contrary, if I had problems or stress, it seems like I need to get anal stimulation.
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Hello 19 years old boy. By now you are 20+. Years ago I was exactly you. I loved girls and I also loved anal sex on myself. Like you I was feeling ashamed and thought that maybe I could be gay or bisexual. Please not that to all gay and bisexuals out there, I am totally fine with you. I am just saying that I was confused like most teens. I started as play when I was 13 and by 19 , as I liked more and more girls, I was even feeling more guilty because girls were out of reach (or so I thought) and anyway, I was having lots of anal sex every day to keep me sexually satisfied. So the issue for me was that I was in love with a few girls from age 14 to 20 but could never make it happen even when they liked me back. I was somehow frozen and I think my addiction to anal masturbation was partly to blame. Eventually at 20 I started dating and few years later I got married . While dating and during married life , up until now, 30 years later, I still love anal masturbation and still do it. And guess what ? Afterwards o still feel guilty about it though not as much as before. I still wonder why I do it even if sex in marriage is still good even after so many years. So you see, I think you got to do 2 things : 1) accept who you are and even if you’re not proud of doing anal masturbation, like many say in this forum and many other forums, it’s not that bad and in fact it’s because it’s very pleasurable that we all still do it. 2) you got to take care of your bottom. I am not at the level of very large anal toys but it’s not without risks so don’t go crazy and out in something too large. It takes time, years, to train your ass to bigger. And if you bleed, you will need to stop for a while. I even had to stop for an entire year and go back to small toys for months to make sure it wasn’t t bleeding before I could use big stuff again. 3) of you keep doing this, have colonoscopy every 3 years to make sure everything is fine. It’s a budget (if your medical insurance doesn’t cover or if you don’t like anyone to know outside you and your doctor) you need to save. Early detection of any issue is always better. After 50, do this every year. But you still have 30 years ahead of you.
Lastly, try to reduce the frequency of anal masturbation. You will enjoy it more when it’s less often and you will also give time to your ass to recuperate and self repair any small damage.
Of course use plenty of lubes and it’s better if it’s special anal lube because vaginal lube isn’t as good to protect the inside of your bottom.
Then, if you’re like some of us that likes it hard, you can use some shampoos and hair conditioner as lubes. Be ware as it will burn at first but then the pleasure is times 1000 ! If you do want to try, I advise to go with the natural and organic products since they use way less harmful chemicals. Of course , it’s NOT a recommended practice… it’s just a bit more hardcore !
In any case , keep safe while playing down there. It’s because it’s so pleasurable that we can feel guilty about it . If ever you are lucky enough to have a partner that is into this, you can have both great sex experiences . For me, I just preferred to keep it to myself.
Writing this has turned me on… I shall go fill up my hungry hole with some large and slippery ass toy for big boy!
Lastly, try to reduce the frequency of anal masturbation. You will enjoy it more when it’s less often and you will also give time to your ass to recuperate and self repair any small damage.
Of course use plenty of lubes and it’s better if it’s special anal lube because vaginal lube isn’t as good to protect the inside of your bottom.
Then, if you’re like some of us that likes it hard, you can use some shampoos and hair conditioner as lubes. Be ware as it will burn at first but then the pleasure is times 1000 ! If you do want to try, I advise to go with the natural and organic products since they use way less harmful chemicals. Of course , it’s NOT a recommended practice… it’s just a bit more hardcore !
In any case , keep safe while playing down there. It’s because it’s so pleasurable that we can feel guilty about it . If ever you are lucky enough to have a partner that is into this, you can have both great sex experiences . For me, I just preferred to keep it to myself.
Writing this has turned me on… I shall go fill up my hungry hole with some large and slippery ass toy for big boy!
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