hi okaie so i had a baby 6 weeks ago im 15 yh i no im young and all but me and my boyfriend havent had sex in 9 months pluse 6 weeks and i really want to have sex but i asked him and he said he dosnt really because he is sceard he might hurt me i said no you wont but he said to wait a little while longer i mean come on 9 months of course im desprit but i still dont no if it would like do any damge to my vergina or any thing ? would it be safe to finger during the birth i didnt tear or they didnt have to cut me but stil is it safe?
6 weeks is enough time so i think is safe
Six weeks is probably enough but ask him to be gentle. Remember what you just passed through there. It could be a little tender still. Good Luck. My wife wouldn't have sex with me for months afterwards. She was all excited about pregnancy and childbirth and being a mother until after it happened. Now sex is like 'oh god, not that again' so if you want him this soon and your careful. Thats wonderful for you both.