Is this supposed to happen after you lose your virginity?

Ok now. I'm not sure of the ages of all you girls except for the self-proclaimed 15 year old. First off, what in god's name are you doing having sex at what obviously appears to be WAY too young AND very immature. Come on....you're worried NOW...after the fact...that you may be pregnant? Or worse...some STD. Pain and cramps and all the other complaints you girls are carrying on about are NOT normal after your first time. A little spotting of blood IS normal but it should end there. Too late for being scared children!!!

If you feel for some reason that you are mature enough for this responsibility, then you should all do your research on teen-age sex AND pregnancy, birth control, and STD's. The responsibilities and burdens and monumental stress are so much more than young girls can handle when it comes to being careless about sex. It seems like a fun game at first until WHAM! A "crying, hungry" dose of reality enters your life. Go to a doctor OR, now here's an original one, YOUR PARENTS for this advice. If you're mature for such a responsibility, then you're certainly mature enough to get the advice from either a professional or another trusting/caring and responsible adult.

Who said you probably are not pregnant after your first time? O MY GOD! I can't believe you find that to be the facts. Again, do your research and come up with a decision that is logical, smart, and mature. It's a game of Russian Roulette with you girls only what's at stake is a possible beginning of a life and the end of yours as you know it!

BE SMART GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! There are enough unwanted children in this world....and boys? GROW UP AND KEEP IT UNDER CONTROL...stop with the, "I love you not matter what....." PAHLEASE!! Thank you and goodbye! >:(

Okay so i know its kinda off topic but i havent lost my virginity yet and my boyfriend fingered me for the first time 2 days ago and i've been having stomach aches and those same issues (no bleeding). He was kinda rough and i dont know if things are like hurt or scratched inside me or what...

First of all, if your boyfriend was "kind of rough and I don't know if things are like hurt or scratched inside me or what"...



You would know if you were scratched. It hurts. Are you bruised? Two days afterwards?



I'm sorry but this sounds more like rape than making love.



I wouldn't let him treat me like this under any circumstances.

And if it's your first time, he would be kind and gentle and courteous of your feelings, if he cared for you at all.



If you're still feeling hurt, see a doctor. Be prepared to describe EXACTLY what you were doing and what he did to you.

You may have had a hymen torn, but the doctor's exam will be able to answer this better.



Get checked out, honey.

Not very smart to not use protection missy!!! Its could be because you are worrying about it. If you are thinking you are pregnant, symptoms can show up.

omg! you guys im having the same problem, i just had sex for the first time about a week ago, and i had gotten off my period 3-4 days before i had sex with my boyfriend. We had sex unprotected yea, i knw dumb thing to do the thing is that the following days i started to have really bad stomach aches. im really worried about getting pregnant because my parents are really strict and they dont like my boyfriend. other problem is that my boyfriend is a few years older then me ima be 17 in september.

well no offence guys or should i say gals. think a little bit unprottected come on that is just stupid like think a little. and you know what if your a big enough adult to have unprotected sex i guess your big enough to live with the fact that you might be pregnant seirously its a sad thing but if your big enought to do adult things live witht the adult cons.

did he blow inside of u?

The bottom line is that you should never have sex unprotected because it puts you at risk for STDs and pregnancy. It doesn't matter when you have unprotected sex, how many times you've had sex, or the position you use: you are still at risk if you don't use protection.

First thing I would recommend to each of you is to get a pregnancy test. As scary as it may be to buy one of these, it is completely worth it because you'll have peace of mind. You don't have to take the test at home if you are concerned about your parents finding it - you can take it in a bathroom at a store, gas station, etc. Be sure to follow the directions and take the test correctly. After a few weeks from the first test, take a second one to be sure. This will put your mind at ease.

Secondly, you need to go to the doctor to make sure you don't have an infection - which is possible. In fact, a lot of the symptoms of pregnancy and infection overlap. Don't lie to your doctor though. If you want to get treated for the right thing, then be sure to be honest. I understand it can be embarrassing but it is very important.

Finally, get checked for STDs. There are places like Planned Parenthood or local clinics where you can go and get tested (often for free or very low-cost). They will also give you condoms, can get you on birth control (there are so many options), and give you pregnancy tests. Some of these places can also prescribe the Plan B pill (which is not an abortion pill - it must be taken within 72 hours of having unprotected sex and can prevent pregnancy). Depending on the state you live in and your age, you can even be given a Plan B pill to be kept at home so if you find yourself in this situation again, then you can prevent pregnancy.

I know what it is like to be young, scared, and feeling like I have no where to turn. I lost my virginity when I was 15 - and I definitely wish I hadn't. It did hurt - for like a day or two afterward. I was lucky to have a friend who took me under her wing and got me through all of the emotional rollarcoaster stuff.

Seriously though - buy some condoms. It is just NOT worth the risk. Get yourself on the pill and still use the condom. Get tested yearly (more often if you have multiple sex partners) for STDs and get yourself educated.

i have had the same probably i lost my virginity a week from today then i had sex again 3 days later both prtected, but my stomach huirts and i have to pee a lot and theres like a little pink i sometimes pee out and then my vagina feels uncomfortable and it hurts to pee, am i pregnant? :?

I Have The Same Problems But A Little Different I Lost my virginity Like 3 0R 4 Weeks Ago!! But Noo Bleeding!! Yesturday I Did It Again Two Times Idk If There Was Bleeding Or Not Now Today I Started To Bleed But It Was Light What Does This Means??& My Legs Are Very Sore& How Long Does It To Take To Find Out You Are Pregnant??When Do The Symptoms Start??

Ok...i am kinda in a similar situation with all of this...almost two weeks ago, i was raped by my friend's boyfriend...it was either the 15th or 16th day after the end of my last period so from what i've been reading, i could have been ovulating then or just finishing up right? it happened at 3:30 in the morning but i didn't bleed right away once it happened that i know of...but i started to bleed around 10 that morning then after that (i was running a jackhammer)...but anyways, i bled for about 3-4 days and it felt like a regular period with just minor cramping (usually i have worse cramping but it wasn't bad this time) (but that could be cuz i was active that week too right? bc im in the army and was on training for a new school so was doing different things) but since it has stopped i have been having random cravings for different foods, but then when i smell food, i'm almost nauseaus and not hungry anymore...its either that or i'll be super hungry and wanting to eat all the time.

then i have also been getting dizzy spells...i didn't have any today but the last two-three days, i would just be sitting in a chair in the living room, not making any sudden movements or not even moving, and all the sudden it was like the room was spinning...

other than that, i've been super tired ALL the time! but i dunno what to think...if thats bc of everything that is going on right now with the whole situation and working with pressing charges and stressed with college and everything or if thats because of maybe being pregnant...i honestly don't know what to think because my mind is so messed up right now and i know it....i feel so weird and different...sometimes i feel completely normal, other times i'm walking around in a haze, and other times it feels like my stomach (below my belly button...lower) is super sensitive to things touching it and like there is pressure from the inside...so i honestly don't know what to think...

one of my main questions is....was that bleeding that i had at 10 in the morning...could that have been my cherry or does that start bleeding right when it is broken? and would it possibly bleed for a few days then? or was that my period?

Im Onee turned on Bitchh

ok so mine is a little diffrent they your guys story. i'm 15 years old and about a month ago i was raped. after that i had my period but it was 7 days late and very light compaired to what i usally have. now im on my second perod since then and it hurts so bad. my cramps are so bad im stuck in bed and i cry my eyes out and my flow is way haifer then normal to. but also for the last month i have been dizzy and puking alot my breast are so sore i can barly touch them. i dont know whats going on so if anyone does that would be helpful. btw i havent been to a doctor at all in the last two months either. does anyone know whats wrong with me?

I'm 15, and lost my virginity three days ago. I'm quite shocked, but all I have to blame is myself. I enjoyed it at the time, I lost it in an empty train carriage that was terminating at a station with a boy that wasn't my purines but just a friend whom I agreed to become 'friends with benefits' with before. The thing is I like him, but he is inlove with another girl, yet I act okay when he shares stories and asks advice about her, I just leave my feelings bottled and hidden from him, I feel regret about it but I don't a minute later, I guess I'm having mixed emotions about my situation.. Another thing is I have to keep this a secret.. Because my reputation is on the line, I wanna tell those I trust and love, but even they will turn they're back on me if I admit to something so bad, it's something so bad beacause I am Muslim, and it's against out religion to loose you virginity before marriage.. I just feel so isolated, and felt the need to right this down to complete strangers :)

Well I cant say nothinq cuz i had the samethinq i did it twice in January 21st n February 17th.............now it more worst........Rite now i have a feeling am yh