somoene help me please i have never had sex before and i am going to tonight with my new boyfriend... im looking forward to it but scared i have fingerd myself before but dont like it id rather someone do it for me ... i need help i have got 2 fingers in before it didnt hurt but will sex hut his penis is not very large rather small for his age so i dont think it will hurt as much .... is this true or will it be painfull please help thanks x