If that his the worst pain you've ever had in your life, then you've led a pampered life. Why take the time to write on this obscure blog instead of seeing a doctor if you have experienced what you describe? Me thinks thou protests too loudly.
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I felt exactly the same way... Like he was being slow and listened to me when I said slow down but pretty much every time he tried getting any kinda rhythm going I'd start making a scene and have to make him stop.
Though to the people who can't even get past the head, that was THE worst part, getting all the way in. It hurt so much but after a couple of thrusts it starts calming down. Then it just started feeling like nasty period cramps but that could just be because he's too big for me...
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WTF??? I'm fourteen and I honestly have no idea WHY i read this!!! I'm honestly thinking about NOT having sex now!! D:
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Well being ashamed of yourself is natural everybody does that...
And your bf wil understand that...
ife got a bf to and we are talking about this many times... im stil a virgin and he is to... we talk about what if it starts bleeding or if it hurts... it could hurt a little and you can diside what you want to do... you could ask your bf to be gentle... if they care about you than they wil be gentle... it hurts in the first few minutes you could ask your bf to continieu slowly because the pain would get less and it starts feeling better... but be sure about your disision this is a big step... i also thought it over and im pretty sure about it. I can handle a lot of pain so... if it hurts im ready :p you just got to relax and trust each other... dont tight up else it wil hurt you
And your bf wil understand that...
ife got a bf to and we are talking about this many times... im stil a virgin and he is to... we talk about what if it starts bleeding or if it hurts... it could hurt a little and you can diside what you want to do... you could ask your bf to be gentle... if they care about you than they wil be gentle... it hurts in the first few minutes you could ask your bf to continieu slowly because the pain would get less and it starts feeling better... but be sure about your disision this is a big step... i also thought it over and im pretty sure about it. I can handle a lot of pain so... if it hurts im ready :p you just got to relax and trust each other... dont tight up else it wil hurt you
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i think at first u should see doctor. any way i yhink if u feel relax & using lubricant &ur bf just his finger at firt(first 1 finger then 2 &...) ur vulva will diate!
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Unless you used a condom, the discharge was his...Sex is messy....
As a 36 year old married woman, I have some advice for you. I have been reading through the posts, and the most common things I have read where pain, scared, to tight his penis would not fit.... First, learn how your body works....and stop being scared, that is your first mistake. Yes, loosing your virginity hurts, it does not have to be unbearable...It will come with a measure of pain, but it will pass. You are so afraid of the pain, you are causing it. Your vagina is a muscle, and it works like any other muscle in your body. You can contract it and make it hard, just like when you flex your bicep muscle....Being afraid of the pain will cause your muscles to contract without you consciously doing it, that will cause his penis not to be able to enter, and if he tries to force it, the will cause you more pain than there needs to be. Relax, that will help. Be mentally prepared for the process and ready for it to happen. Don't be afraid of the pain. When your body is relaxed, and you are mentally prepared to have sex for the first time, it will not be as bad as you think it will. Your vagina is designed to accept his penis, and unless he is abnormally huge, your vagina will lengthen to accommodate it. The stretching of the vaginal walls is what tears the hymen and causes some pain and bleeding. The hymen is a thin layer of skin and tears easily, so be prepared for it. But you must relax your muscles first. Any contraction of the vaginal muscles will just cause you more undue pain.
As a 36 year old married woman, I have some advice for you. I have been reading through the posts, and the most common things I have read where pain, scared, to tight his penis would not fit.... First, learn how your body works....and stop being scared, that is your first mistake. Yes, loosing your virginity hurts, it does not have to be unbearable...It will come with a measure of pain, but it will pass. You are so afraid of the pain, you are causing it. Your vagina is a muscle, and it works like any other muscle in your body. You can contract it and make it hard, just like when you flex your bicep muscle....Being afraid of the pain will cause your muscles to contract without you consciously doing it, that will cause his penis not to be able to enter, and if he tries to force it, the will cause you more pain than there needs to be. Relax, that will help. Be mentally prepared for the process and ready for it to happen. Don't be afraid of the pain. When your body is relaxed, and you are mentally prepared to have sex for the first time, it will not be as bad as you think it will. Your vagina is designed to accept his penis, and unless he is abnormally huge, your vagina will lengthen to accommodate it. The stretching of the vaginal walls is what tears the hymen and causes some pain and bleeding. The hymen is a thin layer of skin and tears easily, so be prepared for it. But you must relax your muscles first. Any contraction of the vaginal muscles will just cause you more undue pain.
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The vulva is the outer folds of the vaginal area, the part you can see from the outside... It is impossible for it to dilate...The only part of your vaginal that is capable of dilating is the cervix, and that will only dilate in childbirth as it is attached to the uterus. Learn how your bodies work before you have sex.... If you know how your bodies work, then sex will not be such a scary thing.
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I'm 18 and just lost my Virginity tonight and let me tell you it was the most painful experience of my life and I hope to never go through that kind of pain in my life.I'm still hurting amd bleeding and I don't really know what too do.
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Google hymen, and have a look at the pictures. You will see not every virgin hymen is the same. There are 3 main types. Some break so easily and others are really tough. Don't suffer. If you cannot get full penetration see a doctor. A quick painless snip is preferable to all the suffering documented here.
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This happen to me....I wanted to know does the next time will I still bleed? I had my bf after a few minutes but there was a lot of blood.....will I bleed next time we have sex since we stop or is the bleeding over with?
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I was 18, and it was my first time. The man wore a condom, held me down, and rammed it in. The pain was horrendous, and I thought I would die. I bleed for about four days and had to use a menstrual pad. I'm an elderly lady now, have a wonderful husband and am fine. The space on here is limited or I would tell more. You will be okay.
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