Okay so.. I am 21 years old before I start telling you my problem cause I know people are gona say I'm too young or if I'm school no to everything. Anyways.. My boyfriend and I are planning to have sex this weekend.. It'll be my first time but not his.. Which is good I guess but I'm sorta nervous! cause.. I heard first time hurts ALOT and I cry easily and I will be embarassed to high hell if I cry while he's doing it.. Considering we're doing this cause I want to get pregnant. Does anyone know any good ways for me to loose it without have alot of pain.. or any pain at all. I am NOT using ambesol like I've been told cause thats wrong and sorta sad cause I wat to feel and be felt with our all since its our first time together. Anyways any answers would be great.. I just want to know what to do since I got 2 days to get prepared.. heh.. Thanks.
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omg your having sex to get pregnant? you are to young for that, not for the sex but for the baby. i was 21 when i had my son, who i buy condoms for by the way at 17 ,so im not a prude. you said it is not his first time was ha tested for stds? if not you could be putting a child at risk too. i can tell you he will not be there for you and the baby, you might think it but i can tell you not just from my life but my friends also think one day you are going to get married and you child that is not you hubbys will be rejected im telling you just THINK ! YOUR LIFE THAT YOU KNOW NOW WILL BE OVER! I GOT A BIG OLD SLAP OF REALITY AND IT SUCKED! ITS NOT LIKE I DONT LOVE KIDS BECAUSE I DO I RAN MY OWN DAY CARE FOR YRS.
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Just tell him to be gentle. If you don't feel comfortable letting him know how you feel then you shouldn't be having a baby with him.
Good luck!
Good luck!
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