Okay well basically, i really want to lose my V, and although i'm not in a relationship with anyone, i am well passed ready and i am getting desperate as i'm nearly 16, and where i come from, if you havent lost it by then its really bad. anywaay, i have been fingered loads of times, but last night i was drunk and had sex with another girl. she fingered me really hard and although she was mostly very sweet and sensitive with me, when she did it hard i couldn't help but scream because of the pain. i think she put in 3 fingers. i am used to being fingered with one or two, but 3 really hurt. i'm now really worried that a penis is going to hurt even more, and i want to be kind of alright at sex the first time, not screaming and crying from pain.
anyway, i've come to the decision that i have to do something so sex won't hurt too much. i was really wet last night but it was still painful. what shall i do? how do i break my hymen safely during mastabation etc. is it worth using objects to stretch myself and break the hymen, before i have sex, or will it ruin the experience because i have kind of already lost my V to an object..?
i'm really stuck here and need advice, i desperatly await reply. thanks so muchh! xxx
anyway, i've come to the decision that i have to do something so sex won't hurt too much. i was really wet last night but it was still painful. what shall i do? how do i break my hymen safely during mastabation etc. is it worth using objects to stretch myself and break the hymen, before i have sex, or will it ruin the experience because i have kind of already lost my V to an object..?
i'm really stuck here and need advice, i desperatly await reply. thanks so muchh! xxx
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For one...a penis is a lot softer than three fingers...a lot softer, even when it's hard...if you feel more comfotable finding the right sized object to make sex feel less painful when you first do it with a guy, then that's your choice. If I was gonna do it, I'd be very easy and very careful, don't find something to big, or too small, picture the normal size of a penis, and try and find something that big to do it with, like maybe the end of a hairbrush, or the end of one of those vibrating toothbrushes...or try a larger marker, but always clean it first, and make sure it doesn't have sharp edges, and is smooth not rough...sex for the first time with a guy is less painful than you think...if he does it easy for your first time...for a girl to have used three fingers and slam hard into you, no it doesn't feel pleasant, and will scare you a bit...but honestly in my opinion i'd wait for the right moment...and being 16 and still a vigin doesn't matter who cares what anybody else thinks, just cause everyone else has done it, and you haven't, doesn't mean anything...it's good to be more careful and wait, and not just jump right into sex. I was 17 going on 18 when I lost mine, and now im a sex fiend with my boyfriend...it's almost adicting...lol, but it's your choice hun...do what makes you more comfortable, and be careful and go slow...you'll get the hang of it after the first two or three times...and then you can start going as hard or as fast as you want tooo =)
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