Male - I take too long to orgasm

I have the same problem I watch porn and I cum after 20 min

If you are prepared early then when she tries it will make it easier for her and you

You have prostate cancer.

"Watching porn I can usually cum in around 10 min during masturbation but during sex it takes MUCH longer."
You are suffering from porn induced erectile dysfunction. But your case seems much better and you wont take time to get better.

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1) Lay off the porn 2) Don't jerk off for 4 days 3) have her play with your nipples 4) tell your self "i'm an going to cum now" and think about how it feels just before you cum.

yeah i'm with the two of you. I need a strategy to cum faster. Help

Ay bro your penis ain't you only weapon

Well I have the same thing but I've never cum from anything from a partner not even on my first time. It's hard for me to finish. I've lost girlfriends because of it they say the sex is great I just don't finish so I keep going till I tire out or till they tire out. I'm 18 and no idea what the f**ks wrong with me

You’re right... when they can’t cum it’s our fault and when we can’t cum it’s our fault. LOL I’ve spent a lifetime trying to last long for my woman and now I have a new wife and she wants me to be a three minute man. That’s why I’m out here reading. The whole restore your foreskin thing is goofy in my opinion but I do think that not masturbating and only cumming when I’m with her will solve my problem. I’ve got a pretty high sex drive and I don’t masturbate every day but sometimes I do. I’m abstaining from masturbation now and we’ll see if it solves my problem. This woman is the hottest sexiest woman I’ve ever been with. She fires me on every freaking cylinder and I’ve never been harder or hotter for any woman ever. I make her cum within two or three minutes every time and that’s what she wants to do for me. But I’ve never had a woman give me head and suck me all the way off (Well one time back in 1995 and I married her but we immediately got a divorce because she was an abused woman and was too afraid of men to be with me) even though I love the idea and I’ve always wanted that I’ve been with selfish women who wouldn’t do it. This woman loves to suck my penis and I want to ejaculate in her mouth in three minutes every time. That’s what I want and that’s what I’m going to learn how to do. She wants to “drink me” and I want that too. f**k this taking 45 minutes to cum BS.

I've been sexually active since the age of 17. Earlier this week, I managed to achieve orgasm during sex for the very first time at the age of 29....."relief" doesn't do the feeling justice. So I know exactly what you guys are going through.

For me the solution ended up being a simple one - me and my girlfriend watched porn together whilst touching each other. After a while I took her from behind whilst the porn was still playing. Amazingly after 2 minutes of penetration I blew the most spectacular load, I was in a state of shock. The next night we watched porn again, but this time as I penetrated her I focused more on her and the sensations than I did the porn. It took approaching 15 minutes or so but I managed to cum again.

The huge amounts of porn I used to watch definitely preconditioned my brain, making "normal sex" less exciting. My only advice to you guys is to take advantage of the power of your brain - close your eyes and focus on scenes of the hottest porn you've watched whilst having sex with your lady, you will cum quicker than you think.

You have actually answered your own question on why you have had trouble with ejaculation during intercourse by saying you use to watch a lot of porn We keep telling youngsters not to watch porn to masturbate to because it will defeat you later in life when you actually start to have intercourse by either giving your erectile dysfunction problems or by making ejaculation harder without the extra stimulant of some kind of pornography. What you have now found is that you are having to retrain you brain to work on the stimulation from just intercourse rather than the porn you got addicted to without realising so you now need to avoid porn altogether even thinking about it and focus solely on your girlfriend and Intercourse, if your able to gain an erection and masturbate to ejaculation alone just by thinking about having sex with your girlfriend and ejaculate quicker without any kind of porn then your well on your way to getting back to normal again, it will be a slow and frustrating process but you will get there in the end so don't give up and just enjoy normal sex. For all you youngsters that think it's great to watch porn take serious note of this guy's problem as it will happen to you if you carry on using it to masturbate to!

Maybe you're trying too hard. Try and enjoy sex and you might find things cum naturally.