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I am a Christen and it is also against our beliefs to masterbate under the same turned as the last person who was muslum said. IF you are tempted to do it and you do then it is not ok but it is understood that you can no longer controll yourself. I peronally do not believe that Allah or Jesus could ever condem someone for hlding back as long as they can until they can no long take it. This is just not right.

Now as a Christen I also practice may of the Jewish beliefs. This also includes being clean. You must take a shower after doing something like this. Before or even in the shower would be good. If you are in the shower you clean yourself quickly and you do not have to worry about it which is part of the sin as we call it on the Christen side.

Now the other part is if you are married you should not masterbate because then it becomes selfish. You are not sharing your passions with your wife and your wife is being deprived of giving you pleasure. This statement I am pretty sure Allah would agree with. If you are Muslum please correct me if i am wrong here. I do think that Allah only wants you to share such pleasures with your wife and as much as ytou can.

Right now you are 15 and this is a young age. Christens went threw the same persicutions of sexuallity you are right now about 500 years ago. If you find devices that prevented young men from even having an errection at night and if they got one the device would cut them horribley. If you want some good research into the past of it you can check on the net for some of the items used by the Cathlics. In todays world they would have been thrown into a Prison to make someone do something like that.

Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone in this type of uphill battle. There are reasonons for Allah to make sure laws and rules for you so do not ignore them but also keep an open mind.
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TO WHOMEVER IT CONCERNS

We moslems are "forced" constantly and fallsely to belive that masterbation is haram (forbidden), bad for our health, a sin, shitan , you name it !! all the ***** you can stick to it. it will fit .

BUT

There is no CLEAR statment in the Quran or Sunna that masterbation is haram.

of course, it is not a binary answer Yes or No, Haram or Halal, Masterbation is simply not that cool in islam, but if you are to do it, then it is better than exploding and a word of advice

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, DONT BLAME YOURSLEF AFTER DOING IT, because

My husband was masterbating before marrage and because he used to blame himself a lot, now he can not perofrm , he hate sex !! and i am struggeling with thim, and considering devorce.

Brothers do it and forget about it and take a shower, and dont blame yourslef, it is a natural thing, bad dont over do it. and once married better to do it with your wife.

and dont listen to the radicals, they will miss with your lifes and your ability to have sex in the future


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Hello there,

I understand your worry. I am LDS. I have quit my masterbation habit. Now, I don't agree with what the other guy said, "Quran only allows it when you know that you can't control yourself and you know that you gonna commit sin then you can do it otherwise no." I am not trying to say anything against the Quran, but in my religion we believe that it is a sin no matter what. Saying that you cannot control it is a lie. It is extreamly difficult to control, but you can do it. It was hard for me, but I did it.

The way we look at masterbation in my church is that is sacred. And it should only be done between a man and a women. When you and watch ography you get a false sense of the truth. When you stop this sin, you will be able to have a real relationship with your future wife.

I am not trying to convert you. I just want to help you out. Do whatever you want. Find the best help for you. And don't believe what everyone tells you.
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Masturbation

In Islamic terminology, masturbation (istimna) means self-stimulation of the sexual organ till one achieves emission of semen or orgasm. Masturbation in form of self-stimulation is forbidden in Shi'ah, Sunni and other fiqhs. While describing the believers, the Qur'an says, "The believers are... those who protect their sexual organs except from their spouses... Therefore, whosoever seeks more beyond that [in sexual gratification], then they are the transgressors." (23:5-6) The last sentence makes it very clear that any sexual gratification outside marriage is considered a transgression of the law of God. And this verse also implies that sex is an act in which two people are involved. Once when Imam Ja'far as-Sadiq was asked about masturbation, he recited this very verse and mentioned masturbation as one of its examples. (Wasa'il, vol. 18, p. 575) In another, the Imam was asked about masturbation; he said, "It is an indecent act..." (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p. 267; vol. 18, pp. 574-5)

Masturbation is a sin for which a person can also be punished by the Islamic court. Of course, the nature of the punishment is upon the judge's discretion. Once a person was caught masturbating and was brought to Imam 'Ali. The Imam punished him by beating on his hands until it turned red; then he made arrangement for his marriage on government's expenses. (Wasa'il, vol. 14, p. 267; vol. 18, pp. 574-5)

These days some scientists are telling us that there is no harm in masturbation, rather it is a natural act. To prove that it is natural, they give examples of some wild animals, like monkeys. Actually they represent those who have gone to the other extreme of sexual morality. They have degraded human beings to the level of wild animals, and then justify their deeds by finding examples in the animal world. They are, in Qur'anic expression, "like cattle, nay they are more astray; they are the heedless ones." (7: 179) The irony is that when Muslims talk about following Islam which came just 1400 years ago, they are labeled by the secularists as 'reactionaries,' 'those who want to turn the clock backwards,' 'anti -progress,' and now these very people are going millions of years back (according to their own counting) and following the wild animals or the primitive societies to determine what is natural for us and what is not natural!

Many different types of sexual behavior could be found in primitive societies, but that does not automatically make it natural or right. On the contrary, in some cases, masturbation was considered an abnormal and abhorrent act! For example, Lewis Cutlow writes about the Amazon Indians that:


...Xinguanos are deeply disturbed by civilizados who are sexually frustrated; they cannot understand how a man can become aroused at the sight of a nude woman. In his 25 years of daily life with Indians, Orlando told me, he had never seen an Indian with an erection. It would be absurd to them. Nor has Orlando seen or heard any instances of sexual deviation among the Indians. They did not know what masturbation was until they saw a civilizado telegraph operator doing it. From then on the telegraph operator was a problem to Orlando and his colleagues at the Park. The Indians despised him because, in their eyes, he had done something reprehensible. There was nothing to do but remove him from the Park. (The Twilight of the Primitive, p. 16-7 as quoted in Sex and Destiny, p. 88)


Sometimes the scientists justify masturbation by saying that many people do it! But if a majority does something, it does not automatically prove that it is right. Otherwise, drugs should also be declared 'normal' because the majority of Americans, at one time or another, took drugs. The surveys made by sexologists like Kinsey, Masters and Johnson, and the Hite Report just reveal what the American people do in the privacy of their bedroom; it does not necessarily prove that what they do is natural and right!

Many modern psychologists say that masturbation is just like normal sexual intercourse, rather even better because you are master of yourself, you don't have to worry about your partner's feelings! This is an example of how low the materialist society has sunk into its self-centered and selfish attitude that even in sex it prefers to seek self-gratification with the exclusion of the spouse. "They seem to forget that in sexual intercourse all the senses contribute to the stimulation and orgasm: Man and woman see their partner, touch each other, say endearing words to each other and hear the stimulating sounds; and even the senses of smell and taste are utilized. And the penetration of male organ into the female leads to the final excitement and orgasm. But in masturbation the only source of stimulation is imagination, in which no other sense takes any part. The whole burden is loaded upon the mind; and, as a result, while normal sexual intercourse causes happiness and joy, masturbation creates emotional and psychological depression." (Rizvi, S.S.A., Your Questions Answered, vol. 3, p. 40-1)

This is not just an opinion of a Muslim scholar. Even the Hite Report on Male Sexuality, says: "Similarly, many men said that they enjoyed masturbating physically, but that emotionally it was depressing." (The Hite Report on Male Sexuality, p. 489) In one of the replies, a man writes: "It is physically enjoyable, but it can leave one emotionally empty or lonely for the real thing. You can do it when you feel like it, come when you want, bring up your own images, but there is no warmth or closeness, no one to share pleasure with, no companionship. . . "(The Hite Report on Male Sexuality, p. 489) After saying that the physical effects of masturbation are negligible, Leslie D. Weatherhead in The Mastery of Sex writes: "Psychologically the results are more serious. Masturbation in the adult is nearly always due to a maladjustment..." (The Mastery of Sex, p. 103)

THE CURE FOR MASTURBATION: It is easy to stay away from fornication because it involves another person. But the danger of getting into the habit of masturbation is always there, therefore it is necessary to know how to combat this perverted sexual behavior. The following is a guide-line for releasing a person from the habit of masturbation. This has been taken from Weatherhead's The Mastery of Sex and 'Allamah Rizvi's Your Questions Answered.

1. Strengthening will-power. This is possible only if one honestly and sincerely wants to get rid of this habit. Pray to Allah to help you overcome this habit, concentrate on religious teachings, and build up the spirit of taqwa, piety.

2. More and more stay in the company of other persons: If in the daytime you feel like masturbating, get up from your bed or chair and get into the presence of other people and talk to them. If it happens at bedtime, sit up in bed, read a book or write a letter. Do something to switch your mind on to other things.

3. Adopt some hobby or sports which will provide you with an outlet for the energies of your body


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Allah (Exalted is He) says: “And those who guard their private parts from their wives and those (slave-girls) which their right-hands own - so there is no blame upon them. Then whoever seeks beyond that (which is lawful), they are the transgressors”.

Masturbation is also considered as “seeking beyond” with reference to the Quranic verse above.

Suhail son of Sai’d (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s’ Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever gives me the assurance (not to unlawfully use) what is between their jaws and their legs (i.e. the tongue and the private parts), I give them the assurance of the Heaven. (Bukhari)

Abu Hurrairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever Allah protects, from the evil (sh’r) of what is between their jaws and between their legs, will enter Paradise. [Tirimzi]

Imam Shamsuddin Zahabbi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates a Prophetic narration that, “Seven people are such that Allah has cursed them and He will not even cast a look of mercy upon them on the Day of Judgment. Allah will tell them to enter Hell with the people who are going to Hell, except those who repent.
1. One who performs the act of sodomy.
2. One upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
3. One who does bad deeds with animals.
4. One who marries his mother or sister.
5. One who masturbates.” (The words of the hadith says these seven people but lists five - Kitab-ul-Kaba’ir p.48)

Allama Mahmood Alussi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates in Ruh-ul-Ma’ni: “Atta (may Allah be pleased with him) says that I have heard that on the Day of Judgment one group will be brought in such a way that their hands will be pregnant. I think they are the masturbators.” Allama Alussi further says: Saéed bin Jubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “Allah Exalted will inflict punishment on a group of people because they misused their private parts.” (Ruh-ul-Ma'ni p. 291)

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The person who performs marriage [nikah] with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed.” (Fatawa Razaviyya, Vol. 10, p.80)

Abdullah bin Masood (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “O group of youth! Whoever from among you can marry should do so because it keeps the gaze low and it protects the private parts. And he who cannot marry should fast because fasting breaks lust.” (Muslim – Book of Marriage)

Mufti Waqar-ud-din Al-Qadri (Hanfi) writes in “Waqar-ul-Fatawa” (Vol. 1, P. 269): “If a person is overpowered by sexual desire such that there is fear of him becoming involved in adultery or he is not capable of marrying or his wife is so far that he can't go there. Then it is hoped there is no punishment for the one doing this [masturbation]. It is written in “Durr-e-Mukhtar” (Vol. 2, Pp 109) (by Sheikh Alla’ud Din Muhammed son of Ali Haskiffi, died 1088H): ‘If there is fear of committing adultery then it is hoped that there is no punishment on the one doing this (masturbation)’. Allama (Syed Mohammed Amin Ash-Shaheerba Bin Abideen) Shammi, (may Allah’s mercy be upon him, died 1253H) has also argued on this quite a lot and decided that if he does this with the intention of saving himself from committing sin it will not be a sin and if he does it with the intention of enjoyment he will be a sinner.”

The Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said, "No doubt the virtues wipe away the sins". Therefore a masturbator must repent sincerely with an intention that he will never commit it again and do good deeds. According to a Prophetic narration, "The one who repents is like the who does not have any sin."
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ok im sorry
all these people didnt tell you why
is it agsint our religion
IT IS
becuz it stuns your growth and promote hairloss and weakens eye sight
you see all those guys that are bald and have glasses
now you no why
you are young you can stop
and should rite away
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K nvm
they did but this was addtional info
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Anonymus101 wrote:

hi i am 15 years old, i have masturbated, and have also rubbed my organ up and down. i have watched porn a few times aswell.

i have just found out all this is haram, how do i ask god for forgivness? i have read kalama, and other things will this reduce my sin?

i want to be clean aswell.

if i have masturbated in the past can i still read quran, and do prayers? i am going to stop this terrible deed of masturbating.

i am really regretful, and scared of my masturbating. i am reading everyday and asking for forgiveness. will i get it?

please reply..
anonymus101



ok with regards to ur comment i thought of a hadeeth tht goes to the nearest meanin:
Every son of Adam is a sinner, but the best of sinners is the one that repents.
amazing eh? allah is always soo willing to forgive it just takes ny excyse for allah to forgive us nd he will

brother alhamdulliah uve stop masturbating bcus it is very hard to stop.

now tht uve stopped, if u have, then make sure neva to try it agen cus it is lyk an addiction and also for every drop of sperm it takes 40drops of blood.. imagine how ur body is left after tht state..

btw hope i helped cus i saw every1 elses debate whether its halaal or haraam and then i saw ur comment which opened my eyes bcus u wer seekin forgiveness...
may Allah accept u bro jus make sure u always shower properly if u do have a wet dream or sommin..

btw im 15 currently a student at an islamic skwl... which is kinda strict but its okaaai..

lol hope i helped :)
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Masturbation in Islam
Allah (Exalted is He) says: “And those who guard their private parts from their wives and those (slave-girls) which their right-hands own - so there is no blame upon them. Then whoever seeks beyond that (which is lawful), they are the transgressors”.

Masturbation is also considered as “seeking beyond” with reference to the Quranic verse above.

Suhail son of Sai’d (may Allah be pleased with them) narrates that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s’ Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever gives me the assurance (not to unlawfully use) what is between their jaws and their legs (i.e. the tongue and the private parts), I give them the assurance of the Heaven. (Bukhari)

Abu Hurrairah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: Whoever Allah protects, from the evil (sh’r) of what is between their jaws and between their legs, will enter Paradise. [Tirimzi]

Imam Shamsuddin Zahabbi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates a Prophetic narration that, “Seven people are such that Allah has cursed them and He will not even cast a look of mercy upon them on the Day of Judgment. Allah will tell them to enter Hell with the people who are going to Hell, except those who repent.
1. One who performs the act of sodomy.
2. One upon whom the act of sodomy is performed.
3. One who does bad deeds with animals.
4. One who marries his mother or sister.
5. One who masturbates.” (The words of the hadith says these seven people but lists five - Kitab-ul-Kaba’ir p.48)

Allama Mahmood Alussi (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates in Ruh-ul-Ma’ni: “Atta (may Allah be pleased with him) says that I have heard that on the Day of Judgment one group will be brought in such a way that their hands will be pregnant. I think they are the masturbators.” Allama Alussi further says: Saéed bin Jubayr (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “Allah Exalted will inflict punishment on a group of people because they misused their private parts.” (Ruh-ul-Ma'ni p. 291)

Anas (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet of Allah (may Allah be pleased with him) said: “The person who performs marriage [nikah] with his hands (i.e. masturbates) is cursed.” (Fatawa Razaviyya, Vol. 10, p.80)

Abdullah bin Masood (may Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said: “O group of youth! Whoever from among you can marry should do so because it keeps the gaze low and it protects the private parts. And he who cannot marry should fast because fasting breaks lust.” (Muslim – Book of Marriage)

Mufti Waqar-ud-din Al-Qadri (Hanfi) writes in “Waqar-ul-Fatawa” (Vol. 1, P. 269): “If a person is overpowered by sexual desire such that there is fear of him becoming involved in adultery or he is not capable of marrying or his wife is so far that he can't go there. Then it is hoped there is no punishment for the one doing this [masturbation]. It is written in “Durr-e-Mukhtar” (Vol. 2, Pp 109) (by Sheikh Alla’ud Din Muhammed son of Ali Haskiffi, died 1088H): ‘If there is fear of committing adultery then it is hoped that there is no punishment on the one doing this (masturbation)’. Allama (Syed Mohammed Amin Ash-Shaheerba Bin Abideen) Shammi, (may Allah’s mercy be upon him, died 1253H) has also argued on this quite a lot and decided that if he does this with the intention of saving himself from committing sin it will not be a sin and if he does it with the intention of enjoyment he will be a sinner.”

The Holy Prophet (Allah’s Grace & Peace be upon him) said, "No doubt the virtues wipe away the sins". Therefore a masturbator must repent sincerely with an intention that he will never commit it again and do good deeds. According to a Prophetic narration, "The one who repents is like the who does not have any sin." XD
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Masturbation is strictly forbidden in islam(ie haram)..as it is specified in hadis as well as quran. If you are having the habit of masturbation solution given to us by our scholars in terms of hadis and quranic versions is to marry if you are not in that age you can have fasting which reduces the sexual desires.
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Hi, I am a Muslim and I have been wondering also if masterbating is haram until I researched on the Internet. And the answer is yes it is haram. As a previous comment said it is a test. I fully agree as this life is a test in comparison. It isn't haram in the case you think you will go mad if you don't do it but keep yourself clean and try to keep yourself busy from masterbating. Also when you get married inshallah your wife can do this for you and vice versa.
may Allah be with and hopefully your question is answered, also if your wondering if you view ANYTHING to do with porn this is HARAM.
Also my Muslim brother it is better to ask Muslim people as Koofaar and Shirkk may not fully understand the reasons of religion and this may lead to confusion and so. Asalamoualikoum.
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I'm offended at the idea that children are bring forced to surrender their critical faculties and then indoctrinated with irrational ideologies.

If you are reading this, then I assume you have access to the internet. Why not read scientific articles about the benefits of masturbation? You may find that many negative things others have told you about masturbation are incorrect.

As for the question of "Is masturbation right or wrong," try to answer it without referring to any religious books. If you respect yourself as a human being, you have to look beyond blind faith to answer your questions and appeal to your sense of reason. If you do not have that luxury, then I am sorry you were unfortunate to have been brought up in such a community.

I personally think that there is nothing wrong with masturbation. What you do to your own body in privacy is nobody's business but yours. No authority should dictate your personal life, especially not something as innate as the desire to masturbate.
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This is a bit embarrassing, but i'm a girl, and i am Muslim

there are conditions, if you cant control yourself then yes, if you have a choice between sex or masturbation (not being married), then masturbate

But if you do, you have to do it with your left hand and take a shower afterwards, but you really should try to restrain yourself

its harm if it causes you to miss a prayer, it fogs your mind with dirty thoughts, and it wastes reproductive juices, which is harm

HOPE THIS HELPED =)

WISH YOU LUCK ;-)
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Hey brother of islam i am a muslim to and masterbuting isnt haram idk where u got it haram from its only makrouh rather not do it it is like smoking its not haram but you shouldent do it and that is becouse your in a way imaginign that ur having sex but its realy not haram. Probly ur parants that told you its haram becouse they didnt want you cuming ur penis out :p
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Hi Khaled,
Actually as Quran says, masturbation is haram.
It is not a sin only when your lust is so high, so you do it to pretend the adultery.
I should also add, It might give you a very good feeling at the begining BUT after maybe 2years time, when you cannot stop doing it, you will always swear to yourself why you started!!!

I, as an older brother, would strongly advise you not to do it. -)
I wish I could have been useful.
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