A few months ago i had a problem with masterbation, i masterbate most days and a few months ago out of no where it became a struggle to actually masterbate.
When i masterbated it was like there wasnt much feeling there, and to actually reach an orgasm i had to really really concentrate and it was a struggle to actually reach that point.
I wasnt sure what it was, but after a week or so it just went and i was fine and back to normal.
Anyway, it started again this week, but its a little different, its like i have more feeling than the first time it happened, so its easier to reach an orgasm than the first time this happened, but its still harder to reach than normal, and when i do actually reach orgasm, theres no difference in the ammount that comes out and the strength etc....but i hardly feel anything, and i can feel the muscle (Im not sure what its called) but i can feel the muscle thats between your testicles and your bum kind of retract as the orgasm happens, its not really a nice feeling when thats all you can feel, with no nice feeling of an orgasm.
I had a bad cold last week, and i was thinking it was the cold that maybe caused it by being drained etc..but that went last week.
I dont have a cold anymore but the problem is still here. It might go back to normal after a while like the first time but i wondered if there was a reason for this happening.?
I do masterbate most days and sometimes more than once, i am Gay and i do have a boyfriend, but we dont see each other every week because we live quite far apart, so i masterbate quite often.
Im not sure if this is something thats going to continue happening as i get older and interfere with my sex life in the future, or if maybe its because i masterbate a lot and i should do it less, or maybe im tired, or maybe if there is a problem.
Im not really sure if its a numb feeling or not, it feels quite normal to touch my penis, doesnt feel numb or anything, and if i tence the muscle between your testicle and bum it doesnt feel strange, just feels normal.
When i do masterbate its not so much a numb feeling, i can feeling my penis and everything, its just hard to actually reach orgasm.
If anyone knows anything about this then i really appreciate you takeing the time to read this and answer.
Thanks a lot.
-Adam.
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hey Adam,
what you are describing is usually caused by overmasturbation. all guys must go through a refractory period. that is a state where we cant get aroused or at least not fully aroused and have a lack of sexual desire. this it totally normal. however every guys refractory periods are different. some guys only have to wait a few min or hours others several days. so the fact that you masturbate daily to some guys is not excessive as they can masturbate several times a day but others can only masterbate once every few days.
my suggestino is to lay off masturbation and maby try it every few days and see if that helps. if you wait a week or more i can almost garuntee the feeling will come back.
i hope this helps let me know how it goes and if you have any other questions or concerns
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Hey, thank you for replying.
For me it takes me a couple of hours before im able to masterbate again.
But its not very often i masterbate more than once a day.
I will try what you suggested and lay off it for a little while, i do masterbate too much i think anyway.
I assume i just do it too much and this is why its happening, at least if i do it less and then this problem comes back in a few months i will know if something is wrong.
Thanks a lot for replying to me, i feel better knowing its a more common thing with guys.
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